| Arnav(dom male) |
4 months ago •
Jul 14, 2024
Why do some submissives enjoy a rough and sloppy facefuck?
I am a male dom but one thing always strikes me confusing yet erotic. Why do some submissives love a rough facefuck? I understand the degradation aspect. Is that all there is to it? I sometimes can't believe what some girls (I'm straight) let me do to their delicate warm mouth. I'm not complaining at all! Just want to understand their perspectives.
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TopekaDom(dom male)
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4 months ago •
Jul 14, 2024
Some women (and men as well) just like being used. Part of what submission is being a object and some (but not all) crave being turned into that object. As you said, it is part of the humiliation.
Others, (again, not all) love the taste of cock and enjaculate. So much so, they will take it as rough as they can to be accommodated. Still others (see above) find it a form of breath play. I find it all wonderful. |
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Sweetlydepraved(masochist female){Mostly}
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4 months ago •
Jul 14, 2024
I enjoy it because it makes me forget everything else going on in my mind. It can also deepen subspace for me. It’s only happened once but I have had an orgasm during facefucking.
I had a hard time enjoying it back when I thought you had to be able to do it like the porn stars, but Daddy enjoys when I resist, gag, puke, or cry. He doesn’t want me to be a pro because then he couldn’t chastise me for it, which fulfills his sadism and fulfills my maso kink of forced failure. It’s a win, win. |
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LoveandDevotion(sub female){Looking}
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4 months ago •
Jul 14, 2024
I enjoy pleasing my Master, period. I am not into humiliation or degradation, but I enjoy pleasing him to an immense degree.
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| Arnav(dom male) |
4 months ago •
Jul 14, 2024
Sweetlydepraved wrote: I enjoy it because it makes me forget everything else going on in my mind. It can also deepen subspace for me. It’s only happened once but I have had an orgasm during facefucking.
I had a hard time enjoying it back when I thought you had to be able to do it like the porn stars, but Daddy enjoys when I resist, gag, puke, or cry. He doesn’t want me to be a pro because then he couldn’t chastise me for it, which fulfills his sadism and fulfills my maso kink of forced failure. It’s a win, win. That's interesting. That's what I'm still trying to understand. The discomfort is immense. You can gag, tear up, cry, puke and yet, girls seem to willing to do this. It's quite fascinating actually. I'm trying to think if I'm okay being caused this much discomfort in any situation of my life and my mind says no. Submissives really are resilient. |
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| Arnav(dom male) |
4 months ago •
Jul 14, 2024
LoveandDevotion wrote: I enjoy pleasing my Master, period. I am not into humiliation or degradation, but I enjoy pleasing him to an immense degree.
That is my kind of my point. The lengths to which some submissives go to please is incredible. Some even say thank you after the abuse. I can't feel but he shocked sometimes, even though I expect it as a dom. |
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Sweetlydepraved(masochist female){Mostly}
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4 months ago •
Jul 14, 2024
Arnav wrote: Sweetlydepraved wrote: I enjoy it because it makes me forget everything else going on in my mind. It can also deepen subspace for me. It’s only happened once but I have had an orgasm during facefucking.
I had a hard time enjoying it back when I thought you had to be able to do it like the porn stars, but Daddy enjoys when I resist, gag, puke, or cry. He doesn’t want me to be a pro because then he couldn’t chastise me for it, which fulfills his sadism and fulfills my maso kink of forced failure. It’s a win, win. That's interesting. That's what I'm still trying to understand. The discomfort is immense. You can gag, tear up, cry, puke and yet, girls seem to willing to do this. It's quite fascinating actually. I'm trying to think if I'm okay being caused this much discomfort in any situation of my life and my mind says no. Submissives really are resilient. That is interesting, and I’m now also trying to think “Is there any other situation that I would be willing to do something that makes me feel so yucky?” Maybe women are socially conditioned to accept pain for the reward of being pleasing? Like high heels, those things are not comfortable and they are worn to be attractive regardless of the pain they cause. Take waxing, we get our girl parts waxed, underarms, eyebrows and just about anything because it looks better. I have a hard time sitting still so sitting hours in the hair salon is torture, but I do it. I’m incredibly ticklish and pedicures are HORRIBLE but I do it. We used to wear corsets daily because we were told that was how a woman is supposed to look. There’s probably many more cases, and I don’t see men (although some do, I’m not trying to generalize all men) doing the same things habitually. |
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LoveandDevotion(sub female){Looking}
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4 months ago •
Jul 14, 2024
Arnav wrote: LoveandDevotion wrote: I enjoy pleasing my Master, period. I am not into humiliation or degradation, but I enjoy pleasing him to an immense degree.
That is my kind of my point. The lengths to which some submissives go to please is incredible. Some even say thank you after the abuse. I can't feel but he shocked sometimes, even though I expect it as a dom. Yes, I feel immensely thankful especially after getting properly beaten or fucked 😂 Subspace is a high after all. |
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LoveandDevotion(sub female){Looking}
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4 months ago •
Jul 14, 2024
Sweetlydepraved wrote: Maybe women are socially conditioned to accept pain for the reward of being pleasing? Like high heels, those things are not comfortable and they are worn to be attractive regardless of the pain they cause. Take waxing, we get our girl parts waxed, underarms, eyebrows and just about anything because it looks better. I have a hard time sitting still so sitting hours in the hair salon is torture, but I do it. I’m incredibly ticklish and pedicures are HORRIBLE but I do it. We used to wear corsets daily because we were told that was how a woman is supposed to look. There’s probably many more cases, and I don’t see men (although some do, I’m not trying to generalize all men) doing the same things habitually. Don't forget periods. We don't even get a choice about that, but I think it teaches us a lot of endurance in the face of discomfort and pain. Especially since society doesn't even want to know it's happening so we have to carry on as if it's not. That being said we shouldn't discount male subs with male Doms who likely do the same. |
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| Arnav(dom male) |
4 months ago •
Jul 14, 2024
Sweetlydepraved wrote: Arnav wrote: Sweetlydepraved wrote: I enjoy it because it makes me forget everything else going on in my mind. It can also deepen subspace for me. It’s only happened once but I have had an orgasm during facefucking.
I had a hard time enjoying it back when I thought you had to be able to do it like the porn stars, but Daddy enjoys when I resist, gag, puke, or cry. He doesn’t want me to be a pro because then he couldn’t chastise me for it, which fulfills his sadism and fulfills my maso kink of forced failure. It’s a win, win. That's interesting. That's what I'm still trying to understand. The discomfort is immense. You can gag, tear up, cry, puke and yet, girls seem to willing to do this. It's quite fascinating actually. I'm trying to think if I'm okay being caused this much discomfort in any situation of my life and my mind says no. Submissives really are resilient. That is interesting, and I’m now also trying to think “Is there any other situation that I would be willing to do something that makes me feel so yucky?” Maybe women are socially conditioned to accept pain for the reward of being pleasing? Like high heels, those things are not comfortable and they are worn to be attractive regardless of the pain they cause. Take waxing, we get our girl parts waxed, underarms, eyebrows and just about anything because it looks better. I have a hard time sitting still so sitting hours in the hair salon is torture, but I do it. I’m incredibly ticklish and pedicures are HORRIBLE but I do it. We used to wear corsets daily because we were told that was how a woman is supposed to look. There’s probably many more cases, and I don’t see men (although some do, I’m not trying to generalize all men) doing the same things habitually. Yeah I think so as well. Women seem to have a higher tolerance for pain/discomfort in general because of society. Maybe that's why many seem to be okay with/love basically a rod roughly shoved deep in their throats for extended periods of time. Again I'm not complaining AT ALL since this heavily satisfies my fetishes. What I believe is that almost none of it is a physical pleasure for women(submissives), it's all mental. Correct? |
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