How much should I Share on first contact?

How much should I Share on first contact?

confusedvirginboy​(sub male) • Jul 27, 2024

People may have asked and answered, but I still wonder how much of myself should I share for an online connection. Ex: All Doms I approach teel me to send pictures, my body measurements, contact details, and name. I want to get into a relationship so I would do it usually, but it feels like leaving myself too vulnerable.

Also I have some PTSD with this too, I got extorted for my pictures once when I trusted a girl I had met on OkCupid. So I don't want to be in the smae position again.

PS. I know this is a personal decision, I was just wondering what the consensus is

Sincorrigible​(sub female) • Jul 27, 2024

There is no consensus on this. Do you. Do what feels right to you, for you. Ignore people pressuring you.

House Talion​(dom male) • Jul 27, 2024

If you wantnan ltr that's not based on fetishes and sexualbuse, ignore anyone that wants nudes

Miki​(masochist female) • Jul 27, 2024

Go with your gut feeling, but mine would be, on a first contact situation especially, if a would-be dom is asking for photos (aside from one for the dude to have the image of who he is talking to) -- but beyond that , photos, especially anything "revealing" body measurements and all that crap.... I'd ask the guy:

"Are you looking to initiate a back-and-forth online orare you shopping for a horse?"

Shit like that belongs a lot later in a given conversation.

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And since you had a negative experience of any kind with this sort of thing -- It goes double: "I wouldn't"

Miss Anima​(dom female) • Jul 27, 2024

Have you actually been diagnosed with
PTSD ?

Knightsundere​(sub male) • Jul 27, 2024

Even if not, it's fairly common lingo for trauma in his/my age bracket. Strange question.

Sweet Minx​(sub female) • Jul 27, 2024

Really not an appropriate question. Smh.

zamarra​(sub female) • Jul 27, 2024

On first contact Doms asking for nudes and physical measurements are....won't even give it a word. They are not genuine...in my experience

Miss Anima​(dom female) • Jul 29, 2024

[quote="Knightsundere"]
Even if not, it's fairly common lingo for trauma in his/my age bracket. Strange question.[/quote

It shouldn't be lingo it's a serious diagnosis that shouldn't use lightly

Miss Anima​(dom female) • Jul 29, 2024

If people are going to make such claims they should expect questions ..