Is Height a Fetish for you?

Bunnie • Oct 15, 2024

On reflection, yes, it seems so. I wouldn’t call it a fetish, however, I do tend to be more attracted to men taller and bigger in stature than me. Is it a deal breaker? No, I have dated/played with men of all shapes and sizes. Long term though, my partners have all been a fair chunk taller, and more solidly built (not “muscly gym” built though… I like some softness to snuggle against 😊).

Halakur • Oct 17, 2024

Hmm.

yes.. it can be..

from 1 perspective.. being a quite all myself.. seeing "6feet" tall woman towering me and so on is, yes a fetish in a way... turning me to feel myself little, brittle, vulnerable.. ooh..the rush..

Or.. the other way.. small...petite woman who can use her words, they way she carries herself, posture, gestures etc.. how that can turn me to feel vulnerable..

So. Height as alone,, no --
BUT.. combine that with something else.. dynamic.. setting, character...
Yes.. it can make me feel like my veins are filled with flaming mercury and it makes me feel so alive!

ControlYourHole​(dom male) • Oct 20, 2024

While I generally prioritize a sub's mindset and desire to learn over height/hair color/etc, yes height is just as important as any physical characteristic in terms of what turns me on...well her being in shape/fairly thin is number one physically, but her being short is a close number 2 attracting factor. For a couple reasons:

- the sexual pleasure advantage- a woman who loves being dominated generally will be more aroused if her man is much taller and stronger than her. Being picked up, carried upstairs to the bed, & generally manhandled gets my wife super wet, which of course makes it more enjoyable for me. I'm 5'8 and she's 4'11 so that's easy for me. If I had a 6'2 women's basketball player that would feel difficult and awkward for us both. A woman like that needs a Shaq-sized man😂

-the mental/spiritual D/s advantage- a sub wants to look UP to her man, not down. Yes, mentally look up to him for guidance but also just PHYSICALLY having to gaze upward to look him in his eyes is a constant reminder of the special dynamic he has given her. Especially for TPE couples like me & my wife & also for sadist/masochist dynamics, the constant reminder that she couldn't control her Dom or resist Him even if she wanted to adds a huge level of excitement and also comfort.

It's cool to see that many others feel similarly...great question to bring up😎