mysterysoul(masochist female) |
1 week ago •
Dec 28, 2024
This Fantasy or Real to some ?
1 week ago •
Dec 28, 2024
mysterysoul(masochist female) • Dec 28, 2024
Some may want the feel of fantasy but otters may want the real feeling.
I know people want a taste of it that the fantasy may have to come first of learning and understanding but getting into more you want a real feeling and connection goes real. I know everyone does it differently learning online , reading , going to a class , Learning it themselves ,virtual place. But when you get to the point you want more real you want the real raw want to settle with a person. When you have a connection , understanding , same level of dynamic with chemistry and it clicks that the leading hand is willing to keep pursuing and show up to meet so the sub feels safe. Just how long can you stay online and on an app when more real committed one can not do alone its each person wanting it meaning it. But let's say months and year goes by but you may have the talk but the person that promised to go real would want to relocate you to them but their feelings seem different but they are keeping you on a log more beating around the bush. Feel this question should come up, don't wait around for someone that is not showing up for you in return. There is a real connection then its someone keeping you around but not telling you the facts if they don't know time to release out of it. Out of honesty people should know the truth be open and honest know some could be shy to tell the person they don't wanna hurt person feelings. The lifestyle is about being honest upfront putting feelings first and thoughts. know one should have their time wasted. But some stay they like you they will give you do things wanna hear but won't meet up show up to do it. But don't wanna waste your time or your own but you simply just have to say hey I feel we had great connection just not ready still trying to find my real self but we can remain friends. Let's meet so its not dragging us down so we can see if this go further the connection be real as online if we click we do few more meetings give it a year but keep showing up for each other staying weeks or a month til time to relocate one another. Only let down is that person can be emotionally invested at first but would if they are also seeing more then one they said they are exclusive but its a down fall of hurt. They should only be investing in you. How do you feel about this? |
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