True Slave Training Is .....

mysterysoul​(masochist female){JACKs L♡VE} • Jan 3, 2025

Time and place for it and it has to be out of a love bond and trust things agreed on before everything talked of worked with. "Arouse my mind and soul and tease her mind to get to the warm drip tenciles going.  Most of us have a feeling and connection and soul. No soul no love. gotta be more than  body and a face but more  Online doesn't gotta be real you go on date see how it works if you both click further down the road talk slow in touching hand holding kissing.  Both std free and clean but if one does then practice safe sex and they taking something to solve it you like someone willing to go through with them. Someone wants you, they will show effect, keep their word, not just want to hear your voice come on what a bore.  Not just fuck me now its needs romance with erotica with tease but both are attracted to each other.  Upfront with all things the Dom/Sub grew willing to make space for a sub to make a home for them. That's why it takes time to meet with no games. Dom should not be be asking for six figure from a sub you want six figures go make it then but mostly even independent subs rather be stay at home as any other sub would they like man to be the leader does matter how much someone wakes as long you can be strong willing person bring your side to the table why the sub takes care the house and submits two way street.  But someone asking wants sex wants pain now they need to have some growth and patience with getting to know someone asking for sex right away wont get to find a person but more someone wants to get off you won't get what you want. . Someone wants you, they need to be honest, not beat around a bush cause waste of time and you. I understand People get into this lifestyle. They get interested in someone but feel they step aside because they think they are not worthy or not ready. Never think you are not worthy of this lifestyle having someone does matter as I said how much you make just as long as you can work out with a submissive budget and save trying to work on education and support each other out of love and respect.  I know it's a crazy world but you don't need a big house or brand new cars. Those things collect dust. I made my ex sell them because they needed the money . I lived that life does nothing, it's just things and when you know one's home you gotta keep the lights on. The little things more real is sharing with someone making things and hand made things or spend if you saved up for a little sometimes but think of living off the land or even if you're in the city or country.  Mid west  or any where ya taxes are high in the countryside in the suburban areas with hoa gotta get out that mess sell the house go somewhere be free from find a smaller place get rid of things you don't need sell it work up to it. Stop waiting for someone to fulfill your life. You need to fill your own first to find someone that willing support does have to be about money, even subs good support and advisers.  A sub that does not ask for much wants love and care to be protected not asking for much but to put food on the table and both be thankful.  Subs that may not come with a lot are eager. They come with nurturing and obedience they are willing to serve but good to them ones not too busy want this all you need to do is lead not force but slowly they need to know how you live as they do before anything. Does matter how sub looks you can mold them it takes Dom to mold a sub but you need to love how they come no Dom is perfect so understand this job for both of you to on the fears the confidence together does not matter that you both willing to work through the ugly the good and the messes have to stick together that how long relationships survive keep treating them like you first met date them every day.  Mature level staying off chasing people on instag so on  and fake looks real does not look like that you have no idea how these people really all a fantasy to try to get people to follow. Real is natural without too many filters.  But if you Men want women you need to do the same to just how it is. Stop asking for nudes get on voice for hot steam and grow to be someone better cause you want a good person to stay around this person in the same way they will not stick around when they know you lied. Treat people more respect as you would your family and your mother if this person were to be life partner then straightening up a sub can be stronger and leave will find someone that better not be insecure. Life can be hard. I know that insecurity is not your fault but cut the cords of pain your past is not your present your present who you are now can change. Being in a rush for love only gets two people hurt. But if you want someone to stop being afraid of what you can cause you can tell yourself yes I can but don't push it get emotionally invested before getting hooked. One thing I know is earning real ones won't say they are experts, they may share a little good real ones and not show off the real ones are more low key.  I don't go around saying I am exporting, it's not lady like it seems flashy fake pick up line sorta lazy come on this not high school. Better to have respect than attention everyone wants and I don't only need one. Fast only last 5 mins slow works so much better. Experts ? know one has reward or metal for this thing stop looking like lose end everyone at their own pace even if they have many years experience. Put bit more in profile take the time to write go outside play music.Everyone needs help direction but if you come someone has experience don't get mad they not doing what they want everything has to be exchange of energy with trust nothing can be forced. Yes you can be naughty its fine you have desires but don't get all hot and horny want someone right away if you attracted to someone cause you wanted them you did keep your word that good person is gone well you should worked on your growth. We need to be risque even semi with art with erotica and dark things but better to embrace you wanna be part of lifestyle be a lover of it not a bully because a bully gonna stand alone your not happy with yourself then be happy to be yourself go be your own happy. In energy healing I have seen methods to relieve stds I know that some things are not on the market nut the chois healing energy book has methods. Should you be selective yes you should be with your heart and energy they should bring you peace not a headache but you need to open more doors some long distance to find the right one. Ones live far way are rare not going to find it local start being more open but be reserved. Know one can walk in say they want to own you or be owned does not work like that you need to see meet in real see if its connection not slap fast its takes time. Sex might feel good but not the same energy why you need soul connection with feeling after a body how will you love then inside and out well start figuring that out going to be hard to find someone. Real intimacy is of the soul, and the soul is reserved.” “Intimacy is not something that just happens between two people; it is a way of being alive. At every moment, we are choosing either to reveal ourselves or to protect ourselves, to value ourselves or to diminish ourselves, to tell the truth or to hide.



  If they going to be slapped .do it right on the cheeks sides, little hard soft not enough to damage them more like they do in tv they never do it to hurt they have a method.  Just saying then needs to be agreed down out of love and pain but done right.  She needs to feel good about herself. What she wears is sexy that you cherish her by taking her own but making her wear a bullet toy  inside  her cunt  and a fine collar but more for outside.  You gotta get the "Arouse my mind and soul and tease her mind to get to the warm drip tenciles she cums a river you whisper naughty things to her as he cums in her paint. But you take her out to dinner to warm her up to love having your wine and food. Prepare yourself, you want a pain slut you must be willing to care and cherish her for life protect her not break her.  But as she is in pain she is willing to be an obedient wife 24/7 as property.  To keep her you she is everything you wanted so ask to marry her and turn on those toys let her know her place is what she is getting into of lifetime as a sex slave of pleasure. This get her enough to surrender herself to you. After dinner you touch her squeeze her tips and tell her what going to be done and romance dark with her and pitch her nipples hard telling her your ass will be ravage tonight she drips and faints into your arms you take up stairs and restrain her to the bed blind fold her and slap her softly hard tell her you are forever mine and take all her holes and punish her that she begs to submit to you fully you give her your seed she knows she going to have carry the seed of punishment be like cow be milked daily til she starts showing a swollen belly she will be paddled and cunt paddled and teased sadist seduction. A slave/sub needs a Owner that keep their word willing to show the blueprints and effect not just some fantasy this is real the bond love trust art that you bring someone into your world that gets and respects it.  I can tell so many ways but she is going to be screaming your name and moaning and begging for more that this kind of thing gets more into pain why she is turning into 24/7. So you better be willing to hire a maid and a nanny to keep your sub/slave their many huge responsibilities. She needs little help around the house and caring for things if you want her to be full 24/7 property as she is mentally sane as you are. Growth and Responsibility together don't ask a sub how many figures they name you want then to work be ready to support them and guide them or get yourself in use. Not about the figures if you can do together it does matter what you make can survive be stable work it out. I know you want this but don't chase a fantasy. Want one that wants to stay home full time you're going to have to be the soul provider. Being a slave/sub is a lot of work and care they need after care and medical and dental mold them and care but never change them but agree on things. Ask them how they feel holding her daily. You love her, she will love you back.  To meet someone you truly want you have to meet out of your comfort zone work on yourself if you really want this stop questioning yourself ask what you believe and take the guidance it will lead in the path start saying good things about your self start your day saying its lovely day I am sexy , get in to routine of mastering yourself. Fix the things need to be fixed know ones perfect if you have anger make peace with it cut all cords that have bothered you listen to the song that helps you let go music and dance good for you let go in to the new era rumi would think so to.

House Talion​(dom male) • Jan 3, 2025

True slave training is time well spent at the feet of the Owner you want as you do everything possible to earn their collar.

lambsone • Jan 4, 2025

@ House Talion

Oh I do understand that. On both parts. They each have to get to know each other for the dynamic to work.

todayis wednesday​(dom male) • Jan 4, 2025

I want to share my perspective. For me, the essence of a dynamic lies in feedback and interaction with the submissive partner. I usually begin with a vision, but I adapt it to align with the slave's needs and preferences. I intend to create an environment where she feels comfortable enough to bring her unique spark—the traits that make her who she is in the dynamic/relationship.

For example, if we explore objectification, I ensure she’s genuinely interested in it. Even within that framework, I want her individuality to shine—much like an object has qualities that make it unique. This approach allows me to appreciate her more fully while helping her feel at ease in the dynamic. As I don't want a mindless doll 24/7 I like to see some spark behind my slave's eyes, some people do, but again, is a personal preference.

Another scenario might involve a slave who isn’t fully aware of her preferences or who is in a more exploratory phase. For instance, she might have bratty tendencies, but if the Master prefers obedience, some aspects of her personality might be held back during training. I think it’s important to create space for her to express and explore these traits, integrating them into the dynamic in a way that feels natural for both of us. This helps prevent feelings of entrapment or vulnerability. And the opposite also applies, if she desires complete restraint and total submission, in this case, I can imprint more of my personality and what I want her to be. At the end of the day, those preferences can guide the dynamic and for me, it’s about mutual understanding and adapting to each other’s needs without losing yourself in the process.

When it comes to the sexual aspect, I’m clear about what I enjoy and want from a session, but it’s equally important to ensure my slave shares and consents to those desires. Communication and alignment here are key to creating a satisfying experience for both of us.

Protocols and other aspects of the dynamic should be discussed early on. These foundational elements help shape the relationship, but they should also remain open to revision and adjustment as needed. This flexibility allows both partners to grow and adapt together over time, and I think this is key for a lasting dynamic.

Like any relationship, a M/s dynamic thrives on compromise, mutual respect, and adjustment. For me, It’s about creating a space where both partners can enjoy themselves and express their true selves. At least, that’s how I see it

Madeforthis​(sub male) • Jan 4, 2025

I've always wanted to truly serve domestic at home but also, let the master know that he is a king. I'm blk bi, tall long legs, and I wld to have a master that knows, slaves need training verbally and physically. I have a tolerance for pain and love to be smacked
I just need to find someone that can verbally degrade me consistently. I just know it's a great feeling to finally find this place. I think when the dominant one finally accept that the slave will submit to his/her guidance

lambsone • Jan 4, 2025

@todayis Wednesday

Very beautiful thoughts andxwell thought out. Thank you for sharing.

lambsone • Jan 4, 2025

@madeforthis

I hope you will find your match soon. A lot of submissives wish for the same things. You are not alone.