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Cello Trance​{for You}Verified Account
Cello Trance​{for You}Verified Account
3 weeks ago • Jan 1, 2025
Cello Trance​{for You}Verified Account • Jan 1, 2025
I have had submissive women on this website approach me and ask what they should call me and I either just tell them my name or say they can just call me Cello if they want. Honestly, if a submissive woman starts calling me master right away when I’m not, That’s a red flag for me.… Now, if a woman calls me, sir, that’s a different thing. There are a lot of people, especially in the south that were raised that way, and I have no problem with that . Outside of that , any title like master or daddy or something like that that is reserved for people that I am in a dynamic with
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female)​{Pizza+☕}Verified Account
2 weeks ago • Jan 10, 2025
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female)​{Pizza+☕}Verified Account • Jan 10, 2025
fluffypoppet wrote:
Throwing a Mr/Mrs/Mx in the mix is fine.
Ask them how they prefer to be addressed. (I prefer asking lots of questions, get their consent on how they prefer to be addressed.)
Or, say "May I call you..." and put in what you are comfortable calling them.


I'd caution asking THEM what they want to be called as that opens the door for them to require "Master/Sir/Lord/GrandPooba".

To the OP: I would say that plan ole basic civility is fine. They aren't your Dominant and you have no relationship to them so treat them like you would a stranger outside of kink.

Politeness goes a long way.