Do men really like women?

Hypnosubmaker​(dom male) • May 6, 2025

You should mate and stop trying to be a cunt for someone making a mistake in terminology. Its not clever.
But typical of those with no actual argument.

Like I said it was being hyperbolic to make a point.

But I am going to leave this here. Done discussing the issue
Addressed the point and stay on topic instead of name calling or derailing the convo buy trying to nitpicking minutia already addressed.

To sum up what I was trying to get at tho is that this ....
"Women only need men for sperm or not at all"
Neither this ( which is basically the same level of disrespect)
"Men only need women for a womb or as a sex object"
Is acceptable or ok as a narrative to perpetuate in my view.

intenseoldman​(dom male) • May 6, 2025

Oh, I'm "trying to be a cunt" because you don't know what a bolt strangler is, and I find it funny a/f that you still don't.(I gave you a clue in my first post and it flew right by you.) And I'm the one name calling?
Now your story is you know what you were talking about and were just being "hyperbolic"? Oh, okay.
Oh, I'm derailing the convo by nitpicking minutia? No, I just thought it was hilarious you picked a job that's not a job to be "hyperbolic". And what? You can't have two conversations?
Now what you're getting at has something to do with respect when you started on this road to ruin by saying women make no contribution to the creation , nor the maintenance, of the infrastructure civilization depends upon. Mishka mopped the floor with you when she explained how it was women who provide the underpinnings, the math and science, for infrastructure that exists today and you showed no respect for her argument. It was a woman who figured out the formula for putting a planetary object into orbit. It was a woman who figured out mrna vaccines, and it was a woman who built the Brooklyn Bridge. That all holds no water for you, I know.
It's not that women couldn't design and build the infrastructure we have now. They just weren't allowed to. Men who's masculinity still feels threatened by a woman who can strangle a bolt still discourage women's participation in the creation and maintenance of infrastructure. Throughout history when women created and contributed, men took the credit.
You say this is about respect and somehow don't see how disrespectful you are when you say if there were no men, women would have no infrastructure.
When I read that, I thought about my first day working on a fishing boat in Alaska. We were anchored in a line of boats waiting to make our set. I look out at another boat and there's this female captain who's just finished her set. She had taken off her rain gear and was sunning on the top wheel house deck. She was a beautiful woman who could probably have anything she wanted. If you know anything about fishing boats, you'd know a captain has to be a master mechanic, master navigator, master businessman and crew master. This woman was a boss who commanded respect because she was more capable than the 3 men who crewed her boat. I doubt seriously you'd cut the mustard working for her, and I'd love to hear you tell her how helpless women would be without men. She'd be so fucking amused.
You have no point. You're just trolling for all the attention you can get, and being "hyperbolic" to get it. You're a metrosexual posing to be something other. You said a poster was "simping" because he expressed his admiration of womankind. Is that what I'm doing now? Or am I white knighting? And what would that have to do with this "debate" you accuse me of derailing?
"Hyperbolic"? That's what makes this whole "debate" moot. You'll never concede a point. You'll say "I never said" this and "I never said" that because you really don't know what you're saying or what you want because in the end, it's just attention and respect.
You're getting a lot of attention.
You feeling any respect?

Ebony jerneii​(dom female) • May 10, 2025

Yes men do like women but then not all men are willing to submit and right now not all women want to submit as well .

Lulu Feu​(sub female)​{Notlooking} • May 10, 2025

What kind of question is this? I was reading some of the debate and was lost. It looks like a debate as to whether or not men and women can do certain jobs or who contributes to society?

I interpret this question more about the person. Doesn't matter what gender they are. Do you like them. I don't like arrogant, pompous ass men and I don't care for women who are constantly damsel in distress. But that is over generalizing. Not all men are like that and not all women. We are like flavors of ice cream. We are different.

TopekaDom​(dom male)​{Chaos } • May 12, 2025

I think it is utterly wonderful when worlds collide across the internet:

While going through my bluesky scrolling, I came upon a post where they were talking about why men don't like women much. What it all boiled down to was men were only looking for someone to cook, clean and fuck once in a while. They even came up with a glorious new (at least to me) term for such a creature:

Bangmaid.

God, I love the internet!

Twisty Citrus​(sub male) • May 12, 2025

A good question. Hopefully you are open to hard truths.

Yes, we do like women. At least most of us do.
And many of us want a good, stable, and committed relationship with you. It turns out that, in the States at least, men are the more stable and committed partner and we are becoming the better parent. This was not always true.

The problem is online dating and the massive amount of attention that you receive just for having a profile. Your profile doesn't even need a picture.
And for men (top or bottom... it doesn't matter) the mindboggling lack of any attention that we receive is consistent across all types of sites (dating, forums, social media... that doesn't matter either). We work hard to get noticed. We compete against hundreds of other men. We're the ones to read your profiles; you don't read ours. We reach out to you with unique and clever messages, always trying to stand out. We read profile after profile, emblazoned with DOs and DON'Ts for us to navigate. Women wait for men to flood in and then complain that they can't find the right man. You post on a forum like this and men rush in to comment. You write in your journal, and it gets read by scores of people, many who leave comments. We create a journal entry, sometimes exposing our soul, and we are like voices in the dark.

We like you women, we really do.
But we get tired of competing all the time just to get noticed. And most of us eventually realize that the ROI is non-existent on these sites. But when we work on ourselves, our bodies, our finances, our jobs, our vanilla friendships, etc., this proves to have immediate reward. So, we walk away from you.

I rarely come on this site anymore because it has little value to me. I very much want a woman to cherish in my life; someone to pamper, to adore, to think about all day.

But the women who spend so much time online... you're not the ones we want.
We will fantasize about you. We will look at your profiles and check out your pictures. We will send you a few messages.
But you're not the ones we want.
 

intenseoldman​(dom male) • May 15, 2025

Okay, I tried to ignore this for two days. I can't.
If I were a woman I'd be scared of you.
You'd blame me for all your disappointments, frustrations, and failures.
I'd be every woman who never gave you the attention you crave, never replied to your messages, wasn't attracted to you, or, otherwise, rejected you.
You are the man a woman fears every day of her life, the man who can't face himself and projects on her.
If anyone needs to be open to hard truths, it's you.

Twisty Citrus​(sub male) • May 15, 2025

That's why it is a hard truth.

Many people are not going to like what I said. It's going to irritate them and fester, as it did with you. Many will be offended and become defensive, as it did with you. And some, as with you, will lash out.

A question was asked in openness, and it was answered in honesty. What you do with it is your choice. The person who asked the question can read through my comments and potentially gain insight. Or, like you, that person can completely dismiss them. It doesn't matter to me.

The words are out there and they are now their own living entity. Insulting me is not going to change that. They are one view of many. It was not written to be cordial. It was written to be honest.

Yes if they love you also

Chanitail​(sub male) • May 17, 2025

Chanitail​(sub male) • May 17, 2025

Yes a woman and man can complete give each other reasons to live with the right person