angelaffliction(sub female)
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7 months ago •
Jun 2, 2025
What do you like most
As a dominant or submissive what do you like most about rules outside the bedroom? And why?
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pioneer man(sub male)
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7 months ago •
Jun 2, 2025
As a 24/7 live-in Femdom sub for years, it's hard to pick just one. Through the years, she has made changes that have been mostly for the better of our relationship. Only a few didn't work out - we're only human and nothing is perfect.
Everything is done for her pleasure. I must be naked at all times at home or in hotel rooms. I wear vibrating cock rings (she controls the remote), nipple clamps, etc. at home and sometimes I must wear them in public under my clothes and I may not be allowed to wear underwear in public depending on her desire that day. Because I am a totally dedicated submissive, not one of these (and there are others) is more important than the other. True submission simply means you can't say no to any request. |
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NarahPrimal(sub female)
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7 months ago •
Jun 2, 2025
For me allowing someone to give me rules and routine create structure and grounding. Grounding creates quiet and less Chaos.
Less overthinking and planning for me. For someone like myself that is constantly overthinking and does not do well with change. I welcome rules I think I would be lost without them. |
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Miss Magdalena(sub female){FreeSpirit}
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7 months ago •
Jun 2, 2025
I am going to go off the assumption you mean outside of sexually, so will answer thus. What I enjoy about rules or tasks outside sex is how it deepens the connection I feel with my Dom and alters my perspective on day-to-day life. It adds a layer of complexity and can make the most mundane task not just enjoyable but meaningful.
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pioneer man(sub male)
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7 months ago •
Jun 2, 2025
OOPS, think I misread the question.
For me it's simply the opportunity to show her how much I love the way she controls me. Her method of training me was without a "Fifty Shades of Grey" style. Each step of the way she would add a new rule or command that I would follow. Her "rules" are put in place for her enjoyment, but that in turn gives me enjoyment. There usually is no punishment involved, because I gladly do all the things she reqires on a daily basis. It's an ongoing process - she added something new last week. |
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Lupocabo(sadist male)
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7 months ago •
Jun 2, 2025
It's not that easy to draw a clear line between, i explain later. I like the ultimate proof of trust, if i set up a stupid rule and she follow it without asking "Why? ... What for?". This proves, in my eyes, she has thrust in my Leadership. I know she knows it is just a dumb little rule but she does it anyway to make me feel great and important. And if she breaks the rule it is not to upset me. No, it is to show me clearly she want my affection. The punishment becomes a reward and here the circle closes back to the bedroom. Does that make sense?
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| Kelpi |
7 months ago •
Jun 7, 2025
As an older Dom there have been certain rules that were not so much hard lines but things you did or you can leave. If your with me I will open doors. While your with me you will walk inside (away from the street). You will walk with you arm in mine or hold my hand (this stops any other guy from getting the wrong idea about who your with). Many will find this old fashion but it was the way I was raised and it is who I am. It is sad so many women will start out loving all this but when I find they are looking at others they want to know why the have a door knob in their ass.
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Solace(dom male)
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7 months ago •
Jun 7, 2025
Once upon a time I had a girl with some trauma which made her not enjoy people getting near her face. So we made a rule that after dinner we would have desert with a single utensil. I would give her one bite, and she would give me one bite. Often we would watch some baking show or drama of hers while snuggled under covers.
It was nice. I like the ones that let us do something together. |
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Sir Andrew(dom male)
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7 months ago •
Jun 12, 2025
Total control. I'm actually not that interested in sex and much more interested in having total and complete control over a pretty woman. To truly own her and have her as my property. Where I can do whatever I want when I want and she does whatever I say no matter what. To truly own her.
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TopekaDom(dom male){Chaos }
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7 months ago •
Jun 12, 2025
The free popcorn
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