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MysticalPoet​(sub female)​{Uncollared}
6 months ago • Jul 13, 2025
Hi. I prefer sir. You are right. It keeps things impersonal. I protect my feelings, and I feel a Dom should prove themselves to a sub before being called ...prove that they are consistent, care about their sub and their mindset.

I think daddy is personal and specific emotions are attached to this word for obvious reasons.
Ashleythebisub​(sub female)
6 months ago • Jul 15, 2025
I always perfer daddy over any other honorific.

I wrote the following a while back.
“Can I Call You Daddy?
I never once thought that I would ever call someone daddy. An ex once asked me if I had daddy issues, and I was like, absolutely not, and I actually think girls calling the person they are with daddy is really weird. Fast forward 2 years, I have discovered my kinky side, and love calling someone daddy. I was always conflicted about it before, even in my teens, I had fantasies where I was calling someone daddy, and in the moment, I tried to skip past it and kinda move on. But now I think it is so sexy and comforting. like I get to call someone who makes me feel good, watches out for me, cares how I feel daddy ok I’m all for it. Calling someone Daddy is okay, and it doesn't mean I have daddy issues; it just means I like it.“
Defender​(dom male)
6 months ago • Jul 18, 2025
Defender​(dom male) • Jul 18, 2025
I find the honorific tends to fit the particuar mood we are in.

Usually Sir, but sometimes, if she is super-horny it is Master!

(And I take it from there! 😜)


Have been in a DD/lg relationship - wouldn't rule it out, but found that Daddy doesn't really do it for me.
HisJuguete​(sub female)
6 months ago • Jul 18, 2025
HisJuguete​(sub female) • Jul 18, 2025
I use both. Daddy for when He’s nurturing, providing and lovin’ on me. Basically when I’m being a good girl and he treats me as such. Sir for when I’ve “fucked up” and He needs to teach this brat a lesson. His two personalities command different titles and I love them both.
Orgazmo​(dom male)Verified Account
Orgazmo​(dom male)Verified Account
5 months ago • Jul 23, 2025
Orgazmo​(dom male)Verified Account • Jul 23, 2025
It depends on the nature of the relationship and the individuals involved.
Goodlittlebrat​(sub female)
5 months ago • Jul 26, 2025
I personally call him Sir throughout the day, I give my respect. Then Daddy when I'm begging for forgiveness for whatever wrongdoing I accomplished that day 😂
krazylife​(sub female)
5 months ago • Jul 26, 2025
krazylife​(sub female) • Jul 26, 2025
I prefer Daddy for the fact that I was raised to say "yes sir" , "no sir", "yes ma'am", and "no ma'am". So I think for me just Sir as an honorific doesn't hold the same meaning for me. I am incredibly uncomfortable with Master for personal reasons. I have no problems with variation of Daddy if there is a preference. Or just about any other honorific.

I suspect if a sub dives deeper into why they have the preference they do, they will discover it stems from something personal that has happened to them that they are unknowingly connecting to that Honorific. I could be wrong though. Just my opinion and preferences.
Anna Lynn​(sub female)Verified Account
Anna Lynn​(sub female)Verified Account
4 months ago • Sep 12, 2025
Anna Lynn​(sub female)Verified Account • Sep 12, 2025
Personally, I much prefer Sir or Master to Daddy. Calling someone Daddy just doesn’t do it for me.
Heart of Persephone​(sub female)​{owned}
4 months ago • Sep 14, 2025
I think Sir can be just as intimate as all the others, its all in the delivery the feelings behind it. Daddy and others can be cold and impersonal also. It all depends on what you each feel.