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Underground BDSM lesbian scene in major cities on the northeast coast? (US)

snozzbee​(sub female)
5 months ago • Aug 17, 2025

Underground BDSM lesbian scene in major cities on the northeast coast? (US)

snozzbee​(sub female) • Aug 17, 2025
Most stuff I see either allows biological males because it's inclusive to everyone, which is sure, fine, whatever. But it would be good to have a community of our own where
it's strictly for females and not catered to bi fantasies either (ie a male watches). I really like latex in BDSM but I also really, really love mommy LG roleplay and really want a mommy in general with a community where other females partake in the same thing.
I am wondering if thats even a thing. I live in a small area so I don't like dating apps, and even then theres of course not a lot of older women on dating apps. I never got to even try out BDSM, let alone any roleplay, just because its not a thing in my area.
I haven't tried Facebook yet though I should, but that would mean Id have to set up/build a community myself somehow.

Now let me state that I dont even know how to find sexual communities in general for women, I just dont see that overall. Most stuff I see is just "hey lets throw everyone together" women and men and everything in between. Which again, sure, thats good if you like that environment, I just don't. I find it too overwhelming especially since Id be going alone.
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MissBonnie​(dom female)​{oz}Verified Account
5 months ago • Aug 20, 2025
MissBonnie​(dom female)​{oz}Verified Account • Aug 20, 2025
try the term "lesdom" in your searches. For example your profiles says "Pennsylvania, United States" try "Lesdom Pennsylvania, United States" or for munches "Lesdom Pennsylvania, United States munches"

Fetlife while (IMO) is useless for much of anything, it is great for munches, skillshares etc in your local area

Best of luck in your searching