High Protocol in a Modern Society

High Protocol in a Modern Society

TopekaDom​(dom male)​{Chaos } • Nov 23, 2025

Here is a little something I have been tinkering around with while not building toys.

Often, we in the lifestyle have been trying to fit how we do the things we do into the vanilla world. Particularly things like Protocols and Rituals while outside of the house. So one day while contemplating this, I had a somewhat of a lightbulb moment:

Are our s types really nothing more than personal assistants in a business atmosphere?

We require than to dress in a certain way. We expect certain duties from them and to act in a specific way. We give them instructions to speak to us and refer to us in a given fashion.

Now, yes, we can not have the kneel or bring us consumables as we would have at home, or wear the leather (or less). However, we have a way to instruct them in ways that will not get us wide eyed looks.

Just something to think about.

Edd15​(sub male) • Nov 23, 2025

Well put Sir, you are, of course correct Sir.

NarahPrimal​(sub female) • Nov 24, 2025

Personal assistants 🤔 lol
I love being able to please and do what ever I can to make sure my D types needs are met.
Maybe that's the service sub in me that is my happy place.
To wear what he chooses, to follow routines and protocols, etiquette that have been set.
I belive that it can be had in the vanilla world as well, yes it may have to be dialed down a little but it's still possible 😊

bdsamworld​(sub female) • Nov 26, 2025

As a submissive and executive assistant...I can confirm there are many times I'm doing either something for a partner or my boss and stop to think about the similarities. Its hilarious, but a little messed up when you think about it.

House Talion​(dom male) • Nov 26, 2025

If you do et have a specified dynamic or relationship with your sub then they're just a tool used to suit your fancy

Anna Lynn​(sub female) • Nov 28, 2025

I can see the correlation between the two.

Besides all domestic duties that I completed, I did quite a bit of paper work, computer work, made travel and business arrangements, phone calls on his behalf, traced/calculated/ budgeted money and so forth. I loved it all, I might add.

In public, with most of the men I have known, we appeared to outsiders as an old fashioned couple. He would guide me with his hand on the small of my back mostly.

When in a clothing store, he would make the requests of the sales person for clothes for me to try on for him. In restaurants, he would pull out my chair and order for the both of us.

I loved it. Very old world and charming.
So, yes to your comparison but with one added ingredient ( for me). The love. Gotta have the love.

darlingdiana​(sub female)​{Master Ron} • Nov 29, 2025

Well… thanks TD, i already had jealousy towards my previous and current Dom’s assistants. Now my eyes are all suspicious and im wondering if they are as desirable or played with professionally?
*writing down the question for this evening’s call”
🤨 lol
Best,
darling diana

Texasdays​(dom male) • Dec 3, 2025

I mean I guess it kinda makes sense when you think about where all of this got it's start. Many of the first dominant and submissive personalities ended up finding each other and playing around with the ideas after military service or something similar before kink was ever really thought of. They just took the things they enjoyed in their vanilla lives and turned the volume up to 11. 🤣

The Patron​(dom male) • Dec 9, 2025

The matter in the op post is not at all a matter of a protocol.
Protocol is the set of rules we need so we can still make our subs doing all kinds of services for us in modern world.

But addressing the question that been asked here: are our subs a mear personal assistants?
It's really depend on the type of relationship we have, doesn't it?

In the book about the 5 types of love laungegues, there's the "servitude type" l myself found it the most appealing to me (just before the "touch type")
But for others, High Protocol can focus on something totally different.

Heart of Persephone​(sub female)​{owned} • Dec 21, 2025

I love being a personal assistant, I have a thing for office supplies and filling out weekly agendas (fans face). I love the thoughts of high protocols and what they truly are, I want that with my Dom, one who knows the "old" ways.