Submission and fulfillment

Does being dominated by a submissive leaning switch or switch not give the same fulfillment as being dominated by a Dom?

While I can't speak from experience, I would assume probably not... because a submissive leaning switch can't dom from experience. They wouldn't feel it the same way, and the mental connection probably wouldn't feel the same.

Seems like everyone has parts of their personality and in this case it depends on how completely they can, or are willing to, go into their dominant self.

I was thinking in the same wavelength. If the switch during the scene committed to their role as a dominant than fulfillment could be accomplished. Which leads to the question. If the party involved "submissive" in this role knew the person who would be dominating them was a switch and not a full Dom would it effect the submissives satisfaction at all.

Just writing my thoughts down 😁 if anyone wants to follow up I wouldn't mind.

I started as a domme and just recently got into submission

I can be a bad bitch and like it

In my current relationship, I experience what I refer to as "flow." When we are "flowing," it is very easy to flow in and out of each role. We go where it flows. I believe it does require a certain type of connection and trust of course, but I do believe it is possible if both go where the energy flows. It does seem to make it more about energy and less about power though.

Flow is a great word for power exchange.

I think it depends on if you’re talking about topping someone for sex/play vs if you’re wanting something more serious and long term.

Having explored a bit of this myself with previous lovers, from my experience I can say that it does not feel the same. For casual friends with benefits it’s fun and works, as long as they understand that as a sub I will not be topping them during the scene/encounter. I have no interest in it.

If I’m wanting something more serious and long term then no. I desire structure, consistency, and connection. Since I have no desire to switch it up, the ebb and flow as folks are describing it doesn’t feel natural or quite right if they aren’t a Dom. Also, knowing that I won’t be able to fulfill an aspect of my partners needs, doesn’t settle well with me and ultimately would lead to things ending, since I am not polyamorous.