Online now
Online now

Dom Sub Swiht

maswa​(dom male)
18 hours ago • Aug 31, 2026

Dom Sub Swiht

maswa​(dom male) • Aug 31, 2026
wanted to ask how switch works and explore being a dom and a sub, also why are domiatrix out there asking for money?
SubStanChill​(sub male)
18 hours ago • Aug 31, 2026
SubStanChill​(sub male) • Aug 31, 2026
I’ve switched in the past and it’s admittedly fun. The challenge in my opinion is understanding that your role as a dom is not just the inverse of your role as a sub. And vice/versa with your partner.

And dominatrixes ask for money because there are enough subs willing to pay it, given that it’s much more taboo to be a male sub than a male dom.

You’re not seeing the reverse of 50 shades of Gray being hit blockbuster franchises out there… yet.
maswa​(dom male)
17 hours ago • Aug 31, 2026
maswa​(dom male) • Aug 31, 2026
i wanted to explore with FEMDOM and all of them ask for trbuit money.
thanks.
SubStanChill​(sub male)
16 hours ago • Aug 31, 2026
SubStanChill​(sub male) • Aug 31, 2026
maswa wrote:
i wanted to explore with FEMDOM and all of them ask for trbuit money.
thanks.


Yeah, I get that. The good news is, that it’s usually a good sign that they are at best just offering Femdom as a service, which, can be ok as long as the terms are clear. But at worst, you’re dealing with a Femdom scammer.

Best to go through a more vetted service for that. There are some lovely genuine dominant and switch women on this site, but you’ll often need to have genuine connection rather than just a strict dynamic.

And if you’re confident enough, with someone you meet in the vanilla world, you can share your kink with them after a while. It’s been over a decade since I was single but I’ve shared my kinks with a many partners over time and they were pretty much always open to trying it out. And some of them it awakened a side of them they didn’t know was there.
Villanelle​(staff)Verified Account
Villanelle​(staff)Verified Account
16 hours ago • Aug 31, 2026
Villanelle​(staff)Verified Account • Aug 31, 2026
Requests for tributes, be they cash, gifts, or subscriptions, will result in removal from this site.

Requirements for tributes are simply attempts by scammers to get money out of strangers. Please report anyone who makes such demands.

We have a great article in our magazine on how to find a mistress that includes advice on spotting red flags, among other things..

https://thecage.co/magazine,166.html
    The most loved post in topic
SubStanChill​(sub male)
16 hours ago • Aug 31, 2026
SubStanChill​(sub male) • Aug 31, 2026
Villanelle wrote:
Requests for tributes, be they cash, gifts, or subscriptions, will result in removal from this site.

Requirements for tributes are simply attempts by scammers to get money out of strangers. Please report anyone who makes such demands.

We have a great article in our magazine on how to find a mistress that includes advice on spotting red flags, among other things..

https://thecage.co/magazine,166.html


I knew you were going to be on top of this. Love how quick you always are to make it clear that that kind of behavior is not tolerated here. Glad you’re protecting the reputation of this site, as well as the genuine people that are on it.