Who has the right?

House Tallion - really?
You posted
Serious inquiry, jonoffense intended.
Specificly to the trans ppl. As an individual of the gender youre born with, as having the intention of becoming post-op Trans, who pre-op has the right to be treated simply based on feelings compared to the general understanding of the rest of the world?
For example- a born male is mtf Trans, dresses like a female and expects everything a female has, but is pre-op

The statement "no offence intended" is disingenuous your offensive intent is clear
However, the idea that transitioning is "Simply based on feelings" is dismissive and minimising. Trans people have to overcome so many and so demanding a series of obstacles that anyone that is not serious about it will discover that they have another path to tread- as a cross dresser or drag queen (they are different and no less valuable). You clearly place little or no value on "feelings" and yet it is clear your unsupported, inaccurate and confused argument is based on your feelings. Were I to take you at your word I could roundly mock you for your narcissism, but I have more criticism to make.
Your phrase "general understanding of the rest of the world" means nothing and carries no weight unless you can support it with two strong pieces of actual evidence that the vast majority of the worlds population believe what appears to be your view that Trans women are not women. It is far more likely that the majority will be completely disinterested in the question but I have no evidence for that. The second piece of evidence you need has to proove that the "rest of the world" are correct in their understanding. Unfortunately any science more detailed than what was taught in school biology lessons 20 years ago proves that such a "General Understanding" is erroneous (that means wrong). As you have neither piece of evidence this segment of your argument is just a poor quality jibe not an idea to be seriously considered
You also use the phrase "expects everything a female has" presupposes that being a woman in a patriarchy conveys some sort of advantage over men in a patriarchy, it doesn't otherwise no feminism, I would guess that you don't believe in the existence of a patriarchy and that women (Trans and CIS) are seeking more than equality to the detriment of men, they are not the patriarchy exists as does white privilege and similarly to white privilege the loss of and advantage that should never have existed triggers a defensive reaction in those that needed that advantage due to their own inadequacy.
As a whole including your choice of username your post begs some questions, Do you consider yourself an "Alpha" if your answer is yes did you know that Transphobia, as well as homophobia and misogyny, that are commonplace amongst Alphas, Andrew Tate being a classic example, and that thjey are all displacement tactics in the conscious mind of such people to distract from their fear that they are gay or trans and that your post demonstrates exactly this

As a trans woman who has been out for about 30 years, I only know my experience and that is all I can share. There are thousands that are part of the trans community and their stories will vary.

Dollmaker was right that we have been around since man existed. In India, we have been known as hijra. Some Native American tribes acknowledged 4 genders including having words like the Lakota word "winkte".

I try to respect ALL people, even if they are ignorant. They may be trying to legitimately learn so that they can do better. They may not be eloquent in how they ask questions because this can be a very dangerous topic in some circles. I believe we should be polite and kind in answering their questions unless they just want to continue in ignorance then the best option is to just walk away and pray that they learn tolerance and respect for all people.

I have know since I was about 5 that I am transgender. I did not know the words to say how I felt but I always felt like I was one of the girls except that is not how they felt about me. I did everything I could to try to fight the feeling also. I tried sports because maybe that will fix it. I joined the military and wanted to be in the infantry because that may solve the problem. What ended up happening is I was shamed and harassed for who I am. I spent many years trying to drink away the pain. My family, except for my father disowned me and refuse to acknowledge me. I have been humiliated and abused by people who kicked me in the face so many times that most of my teeth were broken. Eventually all of my teeth had to be pulled out. I have been laughed at by some of the women on the Cage when I said I was interested in them. I have had people tell me to do the world a favor and kill myself. I have scars that I rarely talk about, they are physical, emotional, and even spiritual but some of them have now been exposed.

Today, I am my true self. I got sober and have stayed sober for over 21 years. I decided to go back to college and got my Bachelor's and Master's in Social Work. I received a license in Maryland so I provide therapy. If I want to wear a dress and heels for work then I do. Whether I am pre-op or post-op does not matter and is not anyone's business unless they are my romantic partner. It is my life to choose how to live it. I am happy with the life I have. I have worked hard to get to where I am.

I truly wish I had the answers for why people may be transgender. There are probably as many answers as there are stars in the sky. I think what is more important than trying to figuring out why is to give them the respect they deserve as a person first. The trans community deserves to be treated as equal to everyone else. The only thing they have done is decided to be who they truly are, nothing more and nothing less. The reasons for why they are transgender do not matter. If they wish to share their reasons then listen with an open mind and be honored that they were willing to expose such an intimate part of themselves to you.

@LadySusweca​(dom trans woman)

Thank you for your input of personal experience.
Wether its seen as ignorance or inexperience I simply felt the need to hear from your side of this topic. As you can all see its such a heated debate that everyone feels the need to speak on your behalf and thats wrong. Your voice deserves to be heard as well as ppl like you.