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Tired of being disappointed ladies here a tip!

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Tired of being disappointed ladies here a tip!

Tired of being disappointed ladies here’s a tip! So here's the thing this not to put anyone down. But the solution lady’s stop pleasing fools don’t understand value or respect , stop giving hand outs doing task sending photo’s your not a call girl your a human deserve respect! Only thing you need to do please yourself someone wants to be part of your world they should be happy be part of it. You can put yourself out there don’t wait for someone to come in life be the person yourself show up for yourself become the partner you
Seek , date yourself . Fine to be friends let someone be your peace not headache but allow a allow connection that are ones are emotionally invested in you before getting hooked that are shown with blue prints not sweet words. Connections are rare two people have to feel soul
Click one does not feel the same won’t work nothing can not be forced. But soul connection as to come in right light right vibration both align. Relashionship won’t be first thing has be vanilla at first not sex it has to be getting to know each other going out doing things in public meeting up
I’m real but yes first get to know each other online but should have to
Wait life time to
See them someone truly wants you they will move mountains for you keep showing up. Sex I’d great but real sex is both wiling to grow and heal together the ride or die and laugh both work on it In team work. Connection you still need to grow courtship will come in hand how both want to date. Court each other at least 6 months. But this not for fools this something comes with growth not a frat party this is real. Porn and addiction and living moms basement won’t make a man .A man has to be willing to change make better choices and habits keep busy to Master him self only want one to work on himself and his career does have to make millions but work working but not burn out. But lady’s you never to put grace in your life as well do things with flatter don’t show everything someone can take it run off with it right ones will need to see you in clothes and smile but he should be clothed also be motivated to keep showing up keeping you! This not about cheating , this about making a sacrifice bdsm is about , trust and respect , and bond. Leading hand needs to get to know the sub you
Don’t call each other Master/Dom/Sub go by nickname at first because leading hands needs get to know the sub as a person as a human because you can just take someone heart they must earn it first respect if earned not earned not given it slowly exchanges with respect and trust when it shown. It’s not Polly or being shared this about two people only one one for one. Someone that has time will not disappear the ones who play games have to many excuses, here people in back ground they hide in closet to talk to you phone hangs up know the signs what real what not. Know man should be talking about sex to you at first they should leading you reading your blog asking you like this color whets your favorite color as makes you smile and laugh that’s what connection is. Sex questions more down the road when connection is built. You
Don’t meet them at there house you
Do not have sex you
Do not do favors or nudes this a time wasting scam only ones get off do. You sub women need to put your foot down learn to say no still no don’t respond do not give a fool any energy they did earn your respect. Any exchange of photos the guy needs to talk
First and needs to be more then one word. Not hi , hi hottub not home sexy , be a Man be creative write a paragraph write a story somethings copied learn to write better get better educate yourself if you truly want a woman in your life because you must excite her to get her to want to talk and sex won’t do it but make her laugh. But lady’s work on your penmanship to be creative in your profile you don’t have to give up everything but just give up very little even when you get to know someone do not give them all your information you’re very little being mysterious at first let them keep coming to you cause that’s the whole thing don’t give out too much little is best and let them think this is everything to the eye to keep them around to keep coming back To be interested in you . Just be a Women and Man at first the Dom
and sub come later so be yourself take it slow. Time and place for everything you still live in reality need to do life travel and do lovely things together , career and all. Lady and gentlemen I know you want desire but don’t hop in to sheets or say you wanna be owned cause you wanna get off so save for later you get toys and things but Keep that to yourself til down the road don’t do anything out or lust that won’t last long. Really about two people please each other when connection or deeper when Doyle click sex feeling not the same as connection want with right one not wrong connection. Best to be safe with consent both agree on it down the road. Takes two people one can’t do it alone work together. No guy should you for money , saying for you to relocate right way or saying you gotta pay rent these red flags of someone looking for a live in nothing real. If anything does feel right decline you don’t have to take all message just not all connection are the same but say thanks with the best. Don’t wait for messages or live on a site go do yourself let it wait for later let live come to but by flow. Lady’s not your job to chase ether respect last longer then having to give attention. Leave wishy washy out you may be tired of life tired of people go got walks write in a journal, write things don’t like and put what you want to change do them , go in nature and find your peace , somthing not working try to do things you can do try new things brush yourself off try again. Don’t have to give whole world everything but mend in time. Don’t let religion fool you
You about how to live find what you believe in even high self give to peace let that be your freedom. Mindfulness say better things to
Self like you love someone practice self care and love water bloom and flourish enchant your life but invest in it live it. Buddha's answer was very simple. When you like a flower, you just want to pluck it and take it; but when you love her, you water her and take care of her daily. Who understands this, understands life. Takes four seasons in connection not over night take time meeting also not rush to move in get know each other first think before you leap. be well just sharing take what you feel find your own way. Namaste
Steellover Steellover​(sub male)
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Steellover​(sub male) • May 16, 2026
This poorly-translated wall of text was a bit difficult to read through, but there were some tidbits and pearls of wisdom in there.
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