How far would you be willing to travel for the one build in LTR Dynamic ?

How far would you be willing to travel for the one build in LTR Dynamic ?

MidSummerDream​(neither female)​{BothHold🗝} • Jun 6, 2025

How far would you be willing to travel to meet your ideal partner regularly? How far is too far? Is that even something that’s real? I’ve heard people say they’d fly, but would they?



Secondly, how far have you traveled for someone so far?

MidSummerDream​(neither female)​{BothHold🗝} • Jun 6, 2025

I will share mine as well. Just Sharing.

Personally on deeper connections yes my partner has traveled to Illinois from Vegas twice we turned in to LTR he will be coming a third time.

I Just made appointment for my real Id to see him. But if takes to long he is coming again he misses me. He is busy but we make time. We call every day keep it going with the flow. He wants to take me back with him and live with him but that gonna take time.

But we are taking it slow. No hook or play, it was more about the connection and cuddles and soul aliments, the sacred unity that brought us together. He fell in love with me through my writing, the way I carried myself, he didn't rush to meet me but would take me out to dinner, we did things of activity in public before anything else. Emotionally invested before getting hooked. Everything came later. We had a great sacred connection and sex but when you find a soul understand you clicked they take all of you.

Was bit soul selective flow and time you find someone later open to worthiness and aligned growth. We will be moving in together later down the road but willing to be the HOH and I will be the Lady of the House.

But if you can agree on things, build a connection turns in to more keep it going, only have eyes for each other, you can share it grow and heal and evolve to become one.

The traveling and the real ids get them as soon as possible or only have options for train or bus and train might take bit longer. Even if you're moving in together later, it seems a lot of hauls or rental cars won't allow you to go long distance so ship your stuff or get rid of stuff. Passports can take a bit of time as well.

Know matter the distance, the right one will move mountains for you.
But online can only be for so long, the real raw has to be in person skin to skin soul meeting. Real connection has to happen in met in person to see if you click as you did online meet a few times allow it to grow over time and flow. Don't give up on love. Be worthy of love with self and flow with love.

Does not matter about age or size or how you carry it together how you treat each other both willing to grow with love. Get rid of the weird standards go the distance. Superficial won't work. But handmade love will.

EmmaSong​(sub female) • Jun 6, 2025

The farthest I've traveled was about 9 hours to Wisconsin and we were in a relationship LDR then in person for roughly 10 months. It didn't end because of distance, because I had moved up there permanently, but for different reasons. I've also gone as far as 10-12 hour drive one way to Virginia.

The distance isn't the problem. The problem can still exist when local. The problem is when there is a communication breakdown or something causes a rift in the trust.

I would still do it again. I'm not opposed to it..

SubmissiveLidy​(sub female)​{Master T} • Jun 6, 2025

This may seem completely insane but my Dom and I live on different continents.

I live in the UK, he currently lives in Australia but is Canadian, and is moving back to Canada next year. So a 23 hour flight will become a 6 hour flight.

I'm not about to justify our decision to be together. It's definitely not easy, but when you find the connection we have you make it work.

Long term plans at the moment are he will move to the UK. A thousand things could happen in between and if it does it does, I can't see it, but neither of us are nieve enough not to accept it might not work. Navigating a LDR regardless of travel, bus, car, planes,1 hour or 6 hours is incredibly difficult.

We make it work by being open, honest, communicating and respecting each other.

Miki • Jun 7, 2025

@submissivelidy:

Nothing "insane" there. If it works, it works. No need to explain or justify anything and thankfully none on here seem to have asked for one.

I feel the same coming from the opposite side of the proverbial river. I don't do LTRs, never did, and it is highly unlikely I ever will. So in answer to the original question: Zero.

The few times I had been asked about my choices, whatever I write-- I might as well have written it in Martian,. It's simply not comprehensible to most everyday people I guess.

My point merely is what you have is working just like my personal choices work for me... So, enjoy!

Re: How far would you be willing to travel for the one build in LTR Dynamic ?

NicodoubleohSeven​(sub male) • Jun 7, 2025

I have traveled about two hours to see someone and was in addition to give them that I said I would give them.

TheWhorelock​(dom male) • Jun 8, 2025

Flew from Oregon to Iowa before. The woman I was considering was sadly not as ready for the dynamic we were embracing as she'd claimed, but cest la vie. I would do it again for someone I felt deeply connected with, but I would probably be a bit more judicious in my choices now before spending so much time, energy, and money.

GingerSpiced​(sub female)​{Notlooking} • Jun 8, 2025

Went all the way to Pa. And would have went to the moon and beyond . Right now .. I don't think I'd go far distance wise . I've always been of the mind if the connections is right I would give it all just to make it work and make Him happy

Ms MaryJane • Jun 9, 2025

The guy I am getting to know traveled roughly 15 hrs of driving and a ferry to come see me for 4 hours. He will be coming up again in the next couple months for a longer visit.

TexasBadGirl​(sub female) • Jun 11, 2025

@Miki, it’s not crazy to me, either.

I crossed the Atlantic to established a relationship; it’s important to me to establish a in person connection.