GoodSubGuy(sub male)
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3 weeks ago •
Dec 30, 2025
What Do People Think About Fetishes?
Fetishes are more common than people usually admit, but opinions about them can be very different.
Some see fetishes as a normal part of sexuality and personal preference, while others still view them as strange or uncomfortable. Certain fetishes are widely accepted, while others are often judged or rejected without much discussion. I’m curious: • What do you personally think about fetishes? • Are there any fetishes you find interesting or appealing? • Are there others you strongly dislike or don’t understand? • Do you think society is becoming more open about them, or not really? I’d like to hear different opinions and experiences. |
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TopekaDom(dom male){Chaos }
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3 weeks ago •
Dec 30, 2025
The main thing is to understand what is a kink and what is a fetish. Way too many people confuse the two.
Fetishes drive you Kinks are something you can do but can live without. |
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Anna Lynn(sub female)
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3 weeks ago •
Dec 31, 2025
I definately see fetishes as a normal part of sexuality and personal perference and I don't really concern myself with what society or even those outside my circle think about what it is that I do.
While this is not an exhaustive list of my fetishes, there are two that drive me. The first being service and the other being rope. There are those who may argue that service is not technically a fetish ( and in some ways I would agree) but, for me, everything stems from my desire to serve. It is how I would show my love and devotion to my future Master. My desire to serve drives me to be the very best person I can be for myself and him. It drives me to excell in all ways that I serve , whether it be through domestic, culinary , sexual or any other form of service. It is my drive to constantly improve, to dig deeper into my submission, and give more and more of myself to him every day. Rope ~ I have a long standing love affair with rope. Rope is dangerous, takes such skill to be used properly, and requires such trust on both partys and makes me feel my submission in a profound way. The feel of the rope on my skin, the tightening of the knots, the utter lack of control over my own body. The way I am turned into a living peice of art, the control that is applied to each inhale and exhale, and the beatiful marks that are left on my skin drive my sexual pleasure. I have found myself on many occasions over the years begging to be bound by rope. There are fetishes that I don't agree with as they violate my own personal morals and ethics but I keep that to myself and respect that others have the right to choose what drives them. Yes, there are fetishes I don't understand but that is why I am a life long learner. |
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MidSummerDream(neither female){BothHold🗝}
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2 weeks ago •
Jan 2, 2026
Having a fetish is perfectly fine, it's an art form, not pornography. Treat others with kindness and respect, and yourself with the same level of dignity. Don't reduce people to mere objects of desire, as this can damage meaningful connections and cause you to miss out on truly special relationships. Take the time to genuinely get to know people, and educate yourself without feeling the need to share every detail. By valuing life and its precious moments, you'll be guided towards a path of wisdom and fulfillment. Have a good new year!
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MidSummerDream(neither female){BothHold🗝}
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2 weeks ago •
Jan 2, 2026
Takes notes also : Go through some of kink list on the education blog on cage double click on them they will you what they mean. has really good one help you put image in your mind. Web search can help alto with pictures and info but take it lightly don’t get addicted to porn grow become better.
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Eva D(sub trans woman)
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2 weeks ago •
Jan 3, 2026
Fetish
I have a sex change fetish. I would like to find a dominant man so that he can help me, or better yet, force me to change my gender. I think vetish can go parallel with transgenderism.
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dollMaker(dom male)
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2 weeks ago •
Jan 3, 2026
Re: Fetish Eva D wrote: I have a sex change fetish. I would like to find a dominant man so that he can help me, or better yet, force me to change my gender. I think vetish can go parallel with transgenderism.
I think what you have said is problematic, as it feeds into the fetishisation of trans people, they should never be a fetish, and most trans people I know, or in general trans community writings strongly suggest that is a very common view point. |
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Eva D(sub trans woman)
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2 weeks ago •
Jan 3, 2026
I apologize for the inaccuracies of the translation. I wanted to say that one does not interfere with the other. I thought I had a fetish myself, but I realized that it was much deeper. these concepts are not related, and can be separately or together.
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dollMaker(dom male)
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2 weeks ago •
Jan 3, 2026
Eva D wrote: I apologize for the inaccuracies of the translation. I wanted to say that one does not interfere with the other. I thought I had a fetish myself, but I realized that it was much deeper. these concepts are not related, and can be separately or together.
I didn't check your profile, I was unaware English was not your first language. Thank you for clarifying., one of the massive problems trans people face today, is the claim, usually made by trans haters, conservatives, is that being trans doesn't exist, that it's simply a fetish, and not a real state of being. |
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Eva D(sub trans woman)
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2 weeks ago •
Jan 3, 2026
Everyone is different. There are courageous women and feminine men. maybe gender is not tied to the body. Most people don't live their own lives, fearing that they will be judged. they carry burdens that are not suitable for them because of the social framework of how a man or woman should behave. If a man has a feminine character, he wants to be a woman and will not differ from other women in all aspects, social, sexual and physical. If it's hard for him to pretend to be a man and do what others expect him to do as a man. And just the opposite
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