What's your favourite punishment, giving or receiving?

realfreakydad​(dom male){NO} • Jun 29, 2020

mine is to bend her over the bed post and tied her hands and legs spread wide and shove my finger and then my hand in her tight twat and rammed it in with no lube and hear her screamed loud and forced her to cummed and then fucked the hell out of her while I call her dirty names and then smacked her ass extremely hardcore until she begged me to find a younger sub to her to enjoyed too

Literate Lycan​(dom male) • Jun 29, 2020

Punishment: Stand in the corner in time-out to contemplate - five to ten minutes. The above punishments sound a lot more like funishment to me. If someone needs punishment, it should help in correction, correct? Some of those listed prior to sound more like a Friday night fun fest. But hey - you do you.

realfreakydad​(dom male){NO} • Jun 29, 2020

if you want plenty of punishment I be happy to give it to you extremely rough with no mercy! if you dare to send me your text number with full name and age and what city and state!

tallslenderguy​(other male) • Jun 29, 2020

i don't think i have any masochist in me, i do not relate to those who want to give or receive punishment... and even struggle to understand it sometimes?A root need in my nature is for the Dom/Top to be affectionate and affirming which is not something i personally associate with "punishment."

Having said that, there are two kinks/desires/needs that live in me that i wonder about; things that may fit into this category?

One is getting spanked by hand. The truth is, this has never happened to me, just fantasy, so i have no idea how i'd respond in reality. i've seen some spanking porn that got me hot and bothered, but it's pretty specialized/specific. There is the prominent attitude of desire and affection in the Top/Dom, no attitude of anger or disapproval, as He has His sub/bottom over His lap and alternates spanks between petting and soothing. There is something very mind fucky about that for me that seduces me. For me, the reason for the hand only is His leaving His hand print on me, again, the idea of His very personal 'mark' on me is a form of insemination for me.

The other is 'humiliation.' Same as spanking, it is not done in anger, meanness or disapproval, but involves a form of seduction where He knowingly taps into a need/desire that is embarrassing for me, but it's still a need/desire, no matter my response of humiliation or embarrassment at having it surfaced. The "humiliation" part of it can be very powerful for me when i see that combined knowing look in my Top/Doms eye that He has gotten control of something He wants/needs, that others would consider reason for embarrassment.

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} • Jun 30, 2020

This concept of a grown woman being given "punishments" that I have given my own son is odd to me. I prefer the term "consequences" because truly, that is what we are talking about...consequences for our actions. We can either choose to perform an action, with full knowledge of the ramifications or not.

With Brats, the problem you run into is that they may WANT the "funishments" but just can't communicate it openly. Sometimes they do not know how to articulate what they are feeling at any one given moment. It is as if they do not have a "label" for their feelings, and that is a hard place to be in.

Personally, I would rather be spoken to about what I have done to bother someone. Also, I do not think that the same actions that are used for pleasure should be used for punishment. It can cause resentment of the act itself, and that would be a travesty.

bearfortwinkz​(dom male) • Jun 30, 2020

I’ve found a quite effective punishment is canning the soles of the feet then making them stand in a corner on hard floors.

my best punishment given to her is tied her up naked with l

realfreakydad​(dom male){NO} • Jul 18, 2020