tallslenderguy(other male)
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2 years ago •
Nov 28, 2021
2 years ago •
Nov 28, 2021
Great thread. Funny, how we are all on a kink site called "The Cage," talking about our fears of being and expressing who we are.
my "dark fantasies" get divided into two basic categories: "gross" and "taboo." Or put more accurately, my fears of being open about them derive from concerns others will find them "gross" or repellent for some sort of moral reason.
Even though i can divide them into two categories, to me, they are connected by common denominators, the greatest being control.
The gross ones involve 'med' scenarios that may include things like enema, diapers, suppositories, scat, 'watersport,' catheters, etc.. They are really not about any of those things, they are about control in areas that are psychologically/ emotionally 'private,' things we usually experience or deal with alone and have been conditioned to consider them private so we experience feelings like embarrassment, vulnerability, if another is aware, influencing or controlling in those areas.
my taboo list is really also about control (or as a bottom submissive, being "controlled"). Things like hypnotism, grooming, mind fuck. my taboo stuff falls into the category of "soft dom," subtle, affectionate control vs force or bullying. Things like being molded, over time. It can get into "dark" territory because it calls consent into question. Not actually, but it blurs consent because it's subtle dynamic vs. overt.
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