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2 years ago •
Aug 19, 2022
Gaiawolf wrote: Anything asked by my Daddy would be done. If He asks, it's because there is something about it that would bring him pleasure. Simple things like give me a kiss, to more complex acts of submission are all included in that scenario.
Personally, I want my Daddy to be happy 24/7. That means always being ready at any time to follow any request/command he would make of me. Now reality shows that's not always possible, communication at all times between him and myself assures that the times I can't complete a request are so minimal they might as well not exist. I love to please him. I love to serve him. In my mind they are one and the same because every act of submission by me brings him pleasure. And that is my #1 motivator. And as for doing things I don't like to please him, purely to submit to his will. That is where pure trust and total honest communication comes in. He knows me, better then I know myself. Ergo he would not force me into a situation that is abhorrent to me just for kicks. While he can be cruel sometimes, it is within my expressed desires for such cruelty. In our dynamic TPE is real and the way we live. TPE is real and the way we live. As opposed to what? Others who are in fake PE? The words you wrote could have been copied verbatim from a manual. I have seen the exact same words written at least a couple hundred times. He would not force me into a situation that is abhorrent to me just for kicks The way that is written, he could force you into an abhorrent situation if he thought you MAY benefit. Do you have any limits? How long in your dynamic? This kind of trust takes a mighty long time to build . |
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2 years ago •
Aug 19, 2022
RogueWolf wrote: IF you have give consent to obey a command from YOUR Dom and it is within your limits to follow, then I'd say it's all good. This is the key here. consent, boundaries. TPE.
TPE, that is determined by each dynamic. Do you pick out your subs clothes, do you decide what time they pee and poop, do you decide what they eat for breakfast, do you decide what music they listen to, do you decide when they are on their period, do you decide the way their hair is to be cut, styler, color. Do you decide how many hours they sleep, study, converse with friends, do you decide whether they work or not, do they do all the chores, will you decide when and if y'all have children. If you y'all decide to have children, you will come to know about LIFE poking its head into y'all's TPE. |
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Aralyn(sub female){Not lookin}
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2 years ago •
Aug 19, 2022
I can speak only for myself in this matter, but the act of service comes from taking care of the needs and desires of my Dom. It is through a deep emotional bond and intimate knowledge of that person that I’m able to know what they need and what they desire. I find pleasure in both the connection that you have to be able to know what services should be performed, i.e. cleaning his boots based on his preferences, and the service itself knowing that he’ll be satisfied by the act that I have performed for him and my satisfaction in knowing that he’ll never have dirty boots because he has me, in this example.
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| cynthiajoy |
2 years ago •
Aug 20, 2022
i don't have the numbers to quote on this question, but i disagree a bit. There are some of us that consider themselves service slaves/submissive/or whatever title they choose to be called. We, okay speaking for myself, i consider me into being a service slave. To me that is making the other person's life easier. Can be cleaning the others boots, making them breakfast, or providing oral on demand. i know i am not big on the pain side of it, but have to accept that as part of my Domme's life and even that is pleasing Her.
i also think that there is some confusion about service. The media and porn constantly suggest it is about barking out order and one person abusing another for their sexual gratification. That is an honest kink. Not saying that doesn't happen because it does. i am just saying that a service slave wants more of the tenderness in the relationship. We don't need to be tied up to obey; in our minds we want to serve because it brings us joy and purpose. |
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