ButterfliesAndCuffs wrote:
I think the issue is that clinginess was presented as a problem that needed to be solved. Even in “finding out what the core problem is” assumes that it is something that needs to be fixed.
As others have pointed out, some Doms like a clingy sub. I’d say most do at least to some degree.
Also just to point out that there were some Dominants who didn’t comment but did “love” SweetEscapes’s comment so perhaps they saw your question as posing clingyness in a negative light as well. Not speaking for them but it’s possible.
Very well said B&C. I myself commented because I have owned 2 female subs in my kinky journey and played with a few more.I agree with you and others the question itself was worded as a negative towards being clingy.
I truly feel that Lambsone has good things to say and the community here can learn from her. It would just be nice if we could all respect opinions that are different than our own. And it’s okay to ask clarify questions when the original post seems contradictory with negative tones from the beginning.