Mind Play

alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } • Mar 3, 2020

I ment not disrepect towards anyone.
As anyone who knows me i speak my mind when it comes to the safety of my fellow subs, always.

TNS​(dom male) • Mar 3, 2020

@ALAWEY@DUNIMOS@DUKE MONTEFORT. i have a feeling you are talking about me. let me first say that i thank you for all your help. DUNIMOS pointed me in a direction that i was more comfortable with.ALAWEY i appreciate your concern and it should be stated that it is dangerous. however, my sub and i have been together for a while and it is something that she has been asking for i thought i would entertain the idea. Once we talked more about it we agreed that the Pavlovian way would be a great place to start and if we need more in the future we will go from there.

Dunimos​(dom male) • Mar 4, 2020

So just to lighten things up a bit after all that.... here is another fun mind fuck...

Most subs have a hard limit on knight play, cutting and blood. I think most agree these are good hard limits. But what we can do is create the sensation. That once again, you've blown past that limit. With the proper application of a seemingly shared object which is in fact dull... and a litle ice or water you can create the illusion that a person has been ut and is now bleeding... perhaps profusely.

By the way as a side note, ice can be used to make one feel like they are being burned... yet another mind fuck.

So if your gonna play, stick with the lighter stuff, but be sure to talk this shit through first.

Enjoy.

Lexxa​(sub female) • Mar 4, 2020

“Most subs have a hard limit on knight play”

Not gonna lie it took me a moment to realize you meant knife play and I spent a solid moment imagining knight play and was intrigued haha. Armor, swords, shields, chain mail, shackles, etc hehehe.

Dunimos​(dom male) • Mar 4, 2020

LOL, Sorry about that. I need a service sub to proof read my posts haha.

Damned auto correct. What's worse... it's a pet peeve of mine haha.

Hotmail • Mar 17, 2020

How exactly does hypnosis work? Does it work on everyone? What are the benefits to it?

No Body​(dom male) • Mar 19, 2020

Let me see id I can explain this. For me it was when I had her sit in a chair blind folded. I then lightly touched her as I told her what I wanted to do and what I was going to do. A touch of the flogger here and there then the touch of the hog whip ever so lightly. Talking to her very erotically and just walking around her I watched as she wiggled wanting more and more but she knew if she moved to much I would stop and she would not be touched for 3 days. I turned on her favorite toy and just let her listen to it buzz. After maybe hour and a half I let her up and slide across the bed where I just had her lay there. A little time later I started to touch her sweet spot with the lightest touch of what ever was handy. Toy whip flogger candle but always telling her what I wanted to do but never doing it. It was a good night after that.

Hypnotist​(dom male) • Oct 5, 2020

I get so very frustrated when I see someone post a comment like this to something that they obviously have no real and accurate understanding of.

BDSM can be dangerous, so I don't understand why things like mind fucks and hypnosis are singled out, as if they are more dangerous than being restrained and flogged.

Mind fucks and hypnosis are not more dangerous, and in actual fact can be much less dangerous than many other aspects of BDSM play. Especially when participating with someone who you have not established a firm trust with.

alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } • Oct 5, 2020

Ok I can understand why you are saying this . And YES all BDSM can be dangerous while done by someone who doesn't have a clue on things. But let me say that mind fucks and such are dangerous to me and other because of the fact there seems to be to many that attempt this with not knowledge of how to do this safety or without any real care of the subs well being. Along without taking the time to make sure they won't trigger something . Yes yes I'm sure there are some that honestly care about and for the sub .

alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } • Oct 5, 2020

Also I dont understand is how you can say " in actual fact can be much less dangerous than many other aspects of BDSM play. Especially when participating with someone who you have not established a firm trust with"

I DONT BELIEVE it can be safer when u dont have an established firm trust.
Meaning only that I dont think you should play with someone you dont know very well and trust . But you can go to a dungeon and watch how ppl play and talk to others there. And play with them only at dungeon.