Help me teach my husband to be a dom.

Help me teach my husband to be a dom.

Xarimaz​(sub male)​{Would love} • Oct 31, 2018

Hello there, im currently trying to help my husband be a good dom.... any tips?

CrimsonPaw • Oct 31, 2018

He'll learn a lot by reading up on BDSM, listening to podcasts, even joining the Cage and talking with other Dom's. Joining local munches would probably be helpful too. Best of luck to you both as you start this journey! Be safe and have fun!

MasterBear​(other butch) • Oct 31, 2018

Is he willing to create a profile and ask questions?

Xarimaz​(sub male)​{Would love} • Oct 31, 2018

I meen i can ask him to.

MasterBear​(other butch) • Oct 31, 2018

Is he willing to take the initiative ?

Xarimaz​(sub male)​{Would love} • Oct 31, 2018

Ive asked him a couple times to takes initiative, i asked him again last night

MasterBear​(other butch) • Oct 31, 2018

Is he hesitant to do so?

Xarimaz​(sub male)​{Would love} • Oct 31, 2018

I think so, i think he lacks the resources or doesent know where to start. I think with a little kick in the butt he could

Xarimaz​(sub male)​{Would love} • Oct 31, 2018

I think so, i think he lacks the resources or doesent know where to start. I think with a little kick in the butt he could

MasterBear​(other butch) • Oct 31, 2018

Please excuse me if I'm being inappropriate.

Are you sure your not pushing him into a role that he doesn't want ?

Showing initiative is ---- an important underlying quality in leadership.
Leadership is what being a Dom/me is all about.