Brothers / sisters

Hello everyone:)

Just a little sharing .

How is your connection with your brothers or sisters ?

Years ago I though that my sister would never understand me , my way of life or urges . My connection with her was nearly absent !

Last few years the connection got better and better . I feel I can share with her everything , I don’t know if it’s because we got more mature and fearless in the communications , but it feels so good to be able to share with no judgment;)

Regardless of the fact that we are very different emotionally , way of thinking and understanding the life , the connection we have now is amazing ?

How about your relationships with your brothers or sisters ?


I can say that with my mum is not so easy flowing lol ? but probably is because of the age gap

Z

My relationship with my sister was always very close. Growing up we were typical in that I would tease or pick on her but being older, I was very protective even getting into fights when other boys got out of line.
In college, we went to the same school and rented an appartment together, had many common friends. She would even have potential dates get my permission before going out or dating. In fact, her husband approached me in college and I gave my approval for their relationship.

Fast forward to several years, things have changed sadly. After our father passed away she took that hard , several other things occurred that have put strain on our closeness and has lost our success in life become a competitive issue. I still reach out to her often and we are on good terms but it is not like it was before.

I was always close to my Dad. And he was the glue that held the family together. So when he died, everything went to hell, and I do not get along with my sister or my Mother's relatives anymore. It's a shame, but there is something inherent in family relationships that makes them prone to toxicity. Unless you're very lucky.

As for "understanding' me, my family always knew I was kinky. Likewise my friends, coworkers, etc. It's often not difficult to figure that out about people. Like being gay.

For instance: You're in a social gathering and someone makes a wisecrack about kinky sex, and everyone laughs. Except one person. There you go. Bingo.

Thank you for sharing . And I hope that some day your relationship goes back as was it before .Do you think that when a third person get involved ( in your case her husband, my brother in law is amazing ?) and I think that him married my sister changed her a lot in a better way and maybe my relationship with her is better now because of his presence in her life .

Z

I definitely lucked out, my brother and I are essentially BFFs. We’re both part of the lgbtq+ community and we’re both kinksters. As a result we chat often and about everything. There are no off limits topics and we both are comfortable being emotionally vulnerable with the other. I feel incredibly lucky that we’re so close and that we can share anything without any judgement.

My brother and I was sooo close. Soul mates even. Think about it... no one will get you like a sibling because they were raised by the same people you were. Their childhood was also your childhood.

I used "was" because he passed away in 2004. Forever changed.

My mom knows I am a sub and looking for a 24/7 D/s relationship. She doesn't know details to what he does to me sexually but she knows the basics. I also tell her about Doms that are courting me. What they are expecting from me... such like that.

In my case it was not the brother in law, it was friends of ours. My sister became snobby to put it bluntly and she and I both achieved success on our lives but she wants to impress those in our circles.

Then, in our family which is very large, because I am the oldest male and I am more charismatic it caused tension
Added to that, I am naturally Dominant and everyone, friends and family, place my opinions higher than hers and she struggles with that. I try to dial it back to keep her engaged but there is a lot of jealousy.

In the end it will work out, I insist that it does haha... see, that's the Dominant in me coming out . Haha

We when we're younger and being the youngest we had a very close relationship. Fast forward 10 years, and we couldn't be more apart and different. It makes me wonder what went wrong. I miss the days when we were bffs, but they long gone. I still reach out in the hope of one day we can grown our releaship back and strengthen the family bond. Wish me luck

I am so sorry for your loss ?

I wish you luck and I really hope that soon you can grow back your relationship ? there is nothing better than a family bond and the unconditional love ?