About the amount of messages that you recieve

Kara​(sub female){Dark Roast} • Jul 23, 2020

I got many messages when I was newer or not in a relationship. I just didn’t feel the need to respond to every message, only the ones that were polite and showed some effort. The following never got responded to:

- obvious cut and pastes
- spam sent to every submissive
- sexual fantasies
- messages that are just one sentence ir blank except for the header
- anything with a dick pic
- messages from people who didn’t read my profile
- messages from people who asked me to read their profile but weren’t a match


Not every message needs an answer. Most are just going to be people playing the numbers game and hoping for a response. I would definitely make answering the 5% that are personalized messages a priority, but don’t feel guilty if you treat the rest like the junk mail that you get in the post.

Notely • Jul 28, 2020

We have a choice who we choice to write back someone that respected No Answer is a Answer.


I get bothered but I like to keep busy I will come around read it when I am ready. But if not the same not the same.
Some pretend I can read them well by the energy I can read their whole life some do lie try to get you well does work for me. I like to keep to the imagination take care myself keep busy I do it for myself it goes both ways.

Gets me to write back:
Good hygiene
Keep pride in appearance and features.
Write me a essay.
Get in my mind not parts.
Good manners and respect.
Upfront.
Taking the time.
On the same page
Good full intro
Keeping clothes on
Master their life.
Not rushing.
Make a girl laugh.
Respect.


Why I don't reply: ( Simply just don't have to )
Not taking pride in appearance and features.
Poor hygiene
Slapped together
Rushing
Blank profile
Hiding
Not much info in profile
Fast profile
messaging me on instant messenger right way but out getting in my inbox.
Act like a creep
Pickle pictures
NO class
Lack of intelligent
ugly personally
They get mad because you did message them back right away.
Only say hi and hey.
Think we are the same we are not.
Vibe not right.
Zero respect.
Think the lifestyle build on sex and women body.
Thinking women are a object.
Not on the same page.
Collecting
Shirtless and like they rolled in the mud.
Their third profile almost saying the same crap.
Stalker.
Wanting email and phone contact right away.
No manners.
Asking if you will relocate right away.
Not in the same age range.
No confidence
Can't lead a conversion.
Not upfront
Lack of communication skills.

Aquarius Dom​(dom male) • Jul 28, 2020

Messages what are they !!

Draiocht​(dom male) • Jul 28, 2020

Q: What's worse than a flooded mailbox?

A: An empty mailbox.

Enjoy the attention while you can my dear.

maggiemae​(sub female) • Jul 29, 2020

Reply to people who craft a message. You’re young, you’re beautiful, everything with a heartbeat is going to message you. If they take the time to pique your interest they’re worth replying to. Don’t feel like you need to reply to every message, you don’t.