Sub responsibility doesn't exist on this site it seems.

EclecticRhetoric​(dom male) • Mar 7, 2022

i took it off. i am done. you can delete it.

CSI • Mar 7, 2022

Damn, Spellbound is on it!! Look at you calling him on it before he edited.

IowaDom​(dom male) • Mar 7, 2022

Actually I sent him a pm suggeting he edit and delete the pm, he promptly went after it. Tried to send spellbound a pm (cause reposting a pm is as much a rule breaker) 0-- but she apparently has me blocked for some reason! Oh well.. hope she see;s this and edits

Spellbound Wytch{Mr. Parker} • Mar 7, 2022

Little good it will do, CSI. Some people just get handled with kid gloves around here.

CSI • Mar 7, 2022

I would say the manner in which you were approaching her, according to the conversation OP posted, was solely about your sexual satisfaction, will not succeed with 99% of submissives (that's my completely made up estimate). Once someone gets on that one track mind of sexual submission and satisfaction, it is a deal breaker for the majority. Shockingly, we are more that just body parts and orifices for peni and semen and usually want to be seen as such.

Spellbound Wytch{Mr. Parker} • Mar 7, 2022

Please inform why a dom needed to be told he had crossed the line by posting a series of private messages he exchanged with a sub and that he needed to be told that shouldn't have crossed that line.

IowaDom​(dom male) • Mar 7, 2022

For me, and speaking ONLY for me, I gave him the benefit of the doubt that he may not have known posting comm's was a no no. So I gave him a friendly warning that it was taboo. Same as I would do for anybody, same as I tried to do for you as well, but had to resort to posting it in forum hoping you would see it as well.

CSI • Mar 7, 2022

But morally and ethically speaking.....that should be a no go. People participating in kink and kink sites should know the difference between right and wrong. And I am pretty sure one of the very basic tenets of the lifestyle is consent.

IowaDom​(dom male) • Mar 7, 2022

I doubt all sites have the same rules, and as I said, benefit of the doubt. Always play nice until it's time NOT to play nice .....

Sportsgirl55​(sub female) • Mar 7, 2022

I think the question is who one human would post a private conversation with another human on a site like this. It took me a while to stop and evaluate conversations I have on this site in terms of two people talking and getting to know each other versus and Dom/me and sub talking. Until we get to the point of talking specifics in a relationship, and even then, we are just two people talking and figuring out if things can work between us. One of the best things I learned for myself is to remember not my Dom/me... Meaning until I willingly offer my submission and we have agreed upon roles and responsibilities, it is just words between two people.