TwinkleEyes |
8 months ago •
Feb 25, 2024
Submissive verses Slave
8 months ago •
Feb 25, 2024
TwinkleEyes • Feb 25, 2024
So I’ve been getting a lot of action around here in the way of emails from men lately. One of the common questions that keeps coming up is are you a submissive or slave? Or some aversion of the question. This question can irritate me given the context or what is said around the question.
I have found it a very common theme for so-called dominants or masters on this website to not understand the difference between a slave and submissive. Often enough, they think a deep submissive is basically a brainless robot who will do whatever what they want. AKA slave. When I look further on their profiles, or in the discussion, the terminology, slave and submissive are used interchangeably. As is the word, dominant and master. I think each are different and have their places What I get from all of this is that so many are confused to what a slave is versus a submissive. Or they want the brainless twit because they lack self-control and so it makes them feel powerful and in control to control every little thing someone does. Personally I am not attracted to someone who uses the word slave/submissive and/or Dominant/Master interchangeably. It shows a lack in personal knowledge of themselves, and what they need in a dynamic partner. Or it shows that it is a manipulative person that will try to maneuver a submissive into becoming a slave, even if they are not. I’m wondering what the community thoughts are in using these words interchangeably, as if they mean the same thing. |
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