This Fantasy or Real to some ?

This Fantasy or Real to some ?

mysterysoul​(masochist female) • Dec 28, 2024

Some may want the feel of fantasy but otters may want the real feeling.

I know people want a taste of it that the fantasy may have to come first of learning and understanding but getting into more you want a real feeling and connection goes real. I know everyone does it differently learning online , reading , going to a class , Learning it themselves ,virtual place.
But when you get to the point you want more real you want the real raw want to settle with a person. When you have a connection , understanding , same level of dynamic with chemistry and it clicks that the leading hand is willing to keep pursuing and show up to meet so the sub feels safe. Just how long can you stay online and on an app when more real committed one can not do alone its each person wanting it meaning it. But let's say months and year goes by but you may have the talk but the person that promised to go real would want to relocate you to them but their feelings seem different but they are keeping you on a log more beating around the bush. Feel this question should come up, don't wait around for someone that is not showing up for you in return. There is a real connection then its someone keeping you around but not telling you the facts if they don't know time to release out of it. Out of honesty people should know the truth be open and honest know some could be shy to tell the person they don't wanna hurt person feelings. The lifestyle is about being honest upfront putting feelings first and thoughts. know one should have their time wasted. But some stay they like you they will give you do things wanna hear but won't meet up show up to do it. But don't wanna waste your time or your own but you simply just have to say hey I feel we had great connection just not ready still trying to find my real self but we can remain friends. Let's meet so its not dragging us down so we can see if this go further the connection be real as online if we click we do few more meetings give it a year but keep showing up for each other staying weeks or a month til time to relocate one another. Only let down is that person can be emotionally invested at first but would if they are also seeing more then one they said they are exclusive but its a down fall of hurt. They should only be investing in you.

How do you feel about this?

House Talion​(dom male) • Dec 28, 2024

Such should be understood before irlbinteractions so no one gets let down

intenseoldman​(dom male) • Dec 29, 2024

I think if you are interested in someone, meet as soon as you can, see if there's real chemistry and go from there. Don't spend a whole year getting to know because you never know until you're face to face.

mysterysoul​(masochist female) • Dec 29, 2024

If it clicks meet a few times a month in the year. But see if they take out I pilot don’t hide you take it slow no Rush or demands. Not everyone will find in the home town but you gotta make distance further 30 to hour away or state away. Love can’t happen at first but it does as go further make time for each other. Get rid of high maintenance but be the partner you seek in the same reflection. Got get rid of ugly ego make peace. To meet people outside your comfort zone. Reserve yourself not just anyone pops days they Dom or Sub they should just be grown for them self. Face your fears make peace set it free but better life in to better things. Don’t wait for someone to provide be your provide be the same energy you want to receive. Show people your lows they to insecure they not the one ya people deal with things but you gotta get out of the hole do better no excuse in life do better heal
Your childhood trauma. Get rid the bad habits do good ones be sexy for you. Anyone want to to be part of you should be happy they even part of it know one should try to change you but willing to support your low and highs together. They don’t like your lies they don’t get to be your highs. Take care yourself but to be healthy not to be skinny. Take your power back that belongs to you. Someone should meet you half way not half ass. Don’t shut yourself in revive if does work out so you get sexy for you send love and light what you left peace begin things hit good. Do things you never did get things you want. Know one showing up at first but keep dating yourself say better things to self and life as you go let it flow. Don’t need to chase be the attraction keep to the imagination share very little at first but it gets real be honest together. Evolve. Love everyone thoughts sharing together ✌️ peace. But know one can tell you leave friends and family gotta work it out move everyone or close place or visit you may have to change things to be with someone but still stay in touch with people you gotta move on be with someone. Know one’s perfect clean up good women do so does guys not get on you but don’t forget your self.

Cello Trance{for You} • Dec 29, 2024

I know this may get some flack when I say this, but I really have a hard time reading your writing . There are so many grammatical errors, but also incorrect wording … It’s hard for me to understand the flow of what you’re saying. Maybe it’s because you’re talking into your phone… I don’t know, but I want you to know that.

I’m not saying this because I’m perfect at English. I’m not. I’m a musician, not a writer. There are some incredible writers on this website that have a true command of language. I am not one of those. I’m just saying that I would like to respond more but it’s very difficult for me to read.

mysterysoul​(masochist female) • Dec 29, 2024

Yes on phone but English close to typing close to Canadian. I do use spell check on computer. I been told my writing’s deep depth sometimes incoherent yes I write different it’s more in
Poetry. It takes someone really understands. I’ll work on it stop writing on phone. Thanks for your thought. People speak in energy , signs , art , poetry.

mysterysoul​(masochist female) • Dec 29, 2024

I deleted my other account I felt I had to I forgot this password got it back had help from the site.

I wrote
Being Naked in forum before.

It's easy to take off all your clothes and have sex.
People do it all the time.
But opening up your soul to someone,
Letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hopes, dreams......

Now that is being Naked

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Just was time to renew I will work on writing before I post it.

AlphaByDesign​(dom male) • Dec 29, 2024

You need to take a basic English grammar and composition class. Your statements read like a long incoherent run on sentence that makes absolutely no sense at all.

mysterysoul​(masochist female) • Dec 29, 2024

No thanks I’m fine. Work on your ego.