Boundaries, Red Flags, And Growth with Author, Shannon Elliot | S4 EP104

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We sit at the fire with Shannon Elliott to unpack losing yourself in a relationship, finding your values again, and building boundaries that hold. From red flags to safe words to dating parents while child-free, we trade fixes for clarity and negotiation.

• solo poly identity versus escalator expectations
• awareness, willingness, and capacity to change
• partner as collaborator not classroom
• problems with “training a submissive” framing
• negotiation before scenes and in public play
• impact play as sensation not automatic pain
• safe words as standard, not optional
• dating parents while child-free by choice
• defining labor, logistics, and visibility boundaries
• writing and updating boundary lists for profiles

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