What If Your Relationship With Yourself Came First | S5 EP153 (FLASHBACK)

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If you’ve ever wanted to ask a “too weird” kink question, worried you’re doing non-monogamy wrong, or felt stuck in your own head about dating, we’re lighting the fire for some straight talk. Julius uses this Pillow Fort session to preview the kind of non-judgmental advice you can expect when you reach out, mixing lived experience with the mindset tools that actually hold up in the real world. 

We dig into relationship anarchy as a practical relationship philosophy, not a buzzword: each relationship is independent, and that includes the relationship you have with yourself. From there we get honest about growth mindset, why you cannot grow without failure, and why “fail gloriously” beats waiting until you feel ready. We also talk rejection and social anxiety in a way that’s meant to get you moving, not spiraling, especially if you’re dating in queer spaces, BDSM communities, or ethical non-monogamy. 

Then we hit the myths that keep people insecure: penis size obsession, leading with dick pics, and judging people for their sexual history. We make the case for consent, communication, testing, and adult conversations over shame and assumptions. We also make room for the full range of fetishes without kink shaming, because attraction is diverse and the line that matters is consent. If you want more episodes like this, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a rating and review. What question do you want us to answer next?

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