Bonus: Holly Oldham: Pause Reflect Move Forward

This special bonus episode of Authentically Kinky features comedian and poet Holly Oldham, also known as Pause Reflect Move Forward—a name that has grown into a powerful personal mission.

Celebrating 10 years since the poem that launched her alter ego, Holly shares her journey through kink, creativity, and self-expression. This episode is something truly unique, featuring two live poetry performances that capture her voice, vulnerability, and evolution as an artist.

We explore how her work blends eroticism, authenticity, and LGBTQ+ themes, while also diving into the deeper meaning behind her stage name and the path that brought her to over 100 performances across the country.

This is a conversation about identity, expression, and finding your voice—on stage and beyond.