S2E10: But Why?! The Kink Consultant Analyzes The Kinky Bros

Why are we into the things we’re into?

This week, Gryff and Jason sit down with Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant, to dig into the psychology behind kink and figure out whether there really is a “why” behind the things that turn us on.

Then the Bros make the questionable (but GREAT) decision to let Amanda analyze them. Why do two very different brothers both love edging? What’s really going on with Gryff and rubber? Is Jason’s underwear obsession actually about underwear? And what happens when Amanda makes a connection that leaves Gryff’s mind a little blown?

Turns out the same kink can have two very different whys.

In this episode:

• Why we’re so determined to find an origin story for our kinks
• Why what your kink makes you feel may matter more than where it came from
• Amanda analyzes Gryff and Jason’s shared love of edging
• What Gryff’s rubber fetish and Jason’s underwear obsession may actually be giving them
• What dominance taught Amanda about empathy, boundaries and vulnerability
• Why fantasy and reality don’t always match
• How shame can keep us from exploring what we really want
• Why good kink leaves room for mistakes, laughter and trying again
• The question Amanda thinks everyone exploring their kinky side should ask themselves

And now we want to know: If nobody else would ever know, what would you give yourself permission to explore?

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The Kinky Bros are not experts. We’re just two real-life brothers figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time. This podcast contains adult conversations intended for adult audiences.