Two brothers—one gay, one not—accidentally discover they’re both part of the kink community. What begins as an awkward revelation becomes an intimate, funny, and surprisingly educational exploration of desire, identity, masculinity, and the bonds that survive our most vulnerable truths.
This week, we brought in an actual expert. Like… a real doctor.
After five episodes of two brothers oversharing about kink, relationships, communication, and discovery, it was time to bring in someone who actually knows what they’re talking about.
Enter Dr. Ty Lerman—clinical sexologist, certified sex therapist.
Together, we tackle some of the biggest questions listeners have been asking:
Is kink “normal”?
What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish?
Is jealousy inevitable?
Can open relationships actually work?
And why are conversations about sex still so damn hard?
This episode is honest, educational, validating, and probably the one you’ll want to send to someone else.
In This Episode:This conversation is packed with information—but it’s still just that: a conversation.
Not therapy. Not medical advice. Just honest discussion with someone who’s spent years helping people navigate these exact topics.
Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod
Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X)
Instagram: @tdlcounseling
Website: https://tdlcounseling.com
We wrap this first chapter of the Kinky Bros journey by talking about how to make these conversations easier—for couples, families, friends… and honestly, for all of us.
Disclaimer:This podcast is intended for adult audiences only. This episode discusses sexuality, relationships, and kink in an educational and conversational context.
Who knows this side of you… and who doesn’t?
In Episode 5, we shift the conversation beyond partners and into the wider world—friends, social circles, and the different “buckets” we keep our lives in.
Why is it so hard to talk about this with the people we’ve known the longest?
What do we gain—or lose—by keeping parts of ourselves separate?
From “bro code” silence to unexpected support, we explore what it really looks like to navigate kink, identity, and curiosity in everyday life.
In This Episode:
This episode might make you think about your own friendships—and what you choose to share (or keep hidden).
We’re not here to tell you what’s right. Just what’s been real for us.
Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod
Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X)
We’re calling in back-up, and we’re get psych-y! Certified sex therapist & clinical sexologist (& kinkster) Dr. Ty, joins the Kinky Bros podcast to answer all sorts of questions!
⚠️ Disclaimer:This podcast is intended for adult audiences only.
What happens when your personal journey doesn’t just affect you… but the person you love?
In this episode, we open up about our partners, the conversations we’ve struggled to have, and what it really takes to navigate kink, curiosity, and identity inside a relationship.
From awkward moments and miscommunication to growth, boundaries, and hard truths—this is about figuring it out in real time.
In This Episode:These are real relationships and real conversations.
We’re only speaking from our own experiences—not giving advice, just sharing what we’ve lived.
Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod
Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (BlueSky & X)
Next time, the OTHER relationships we have… our friendships outside of kink. Why is it so hard to talk about this with the people who’ve known us the longest?
We FINALLY get down & dirty about what we’re actually into.
From rubber and leather to toys, sensation play, edging, and everything in between—we put it all on the table and uncover way more than we expected.
What starts as a fun comparison quickly turns into real moments of surprise, connection, and a few “wait… you’re into that too?” realizations.
In This Episode:Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod
Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X)
We take things in a very different direction—what happens love meets kink...?
Spoiler: it’s not always easy.
Two brothers. One unexpected discovery. A whole new conversation.
In our very first episode, we share the unexpected moment we realized we’d both been exploring the world of kink—separately—and how that discovery completely changed our relationship.
We’re not experts—just two brothers having real, honest (and sometimes hilarious) conversations about things most people never say out loud.
In This Episode:Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod
Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (BlueSky & X)
We go back to where it all started—growing up in the same house, but learning very different lessons about identity, masculinity, and the things nobody talked about.
In this episode, we go back to childhood—how we were raised, what we were (and definitely weren’t) taught about sex, and the very different paths that led us to where we are today.
From secret magazine discoveries to early internet chat rooms, we unpack the moments, influences, and silence that shaped our understanding of identity, pleasure, and shame.
This episode explores how childhood, sex education, and early experiences shape our understanding of kink, sexuality, and identity.
In This Episode:Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod
Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (BlueSky & X)
We finally get into it—our kinks. What they are, how we discovered them, and why they’re not as strange as you might think.
Two brothers. One unexpected discovery. A whole new conversation.
You think you know your sibling… until you don’t.
What happens when the biggest secret you’ve both been keeping turns out to be the one thing that brings you closer?
From awkward first moments to full-on honesty, the Kinky Bros Podcast dives into identity, curiosity, and the things most people never say out loud.
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X: @KinkyBrosPod