EA281 - BSing and birthday spankings!

It’s that time again, time for another episode of BS'ing with Barak & Sheba! This time, we are podcasting for The girl’s birthday! Is it time for some birthday spankings? We have a small group gathering after the birthday dinner, and are talking about kink! Check it out as we answer these Kinky Questions -

1. Can you please tell me a little about how to figure out my Power Exchange, without making my Dom feel that I am being too challenging.

2. My question is in regard to sub space.

3. I am currently struggling to categorize myself in one single category. I like to hurt people, but I love being hurt. I don't like to be in control in most situations, but I am not sure if I want people controlling me. Any help or guidance on what I am and how to be a happy resident of the Kink community?