Chalybe

dom male

I am a 64 year old heteroflexible white male, retired degreed professional.
I love living in Savannah. I like art, gardening, being in nature, travel, reading, metalworking and building things with my own hands.  I have an offbeat sense of humor, enjoy a wide range of music (no pop please!) and do not own nor desire a TV.  I am kitchen table poly.

I am a Dom, when I look back, I have always been this way.   I have reached a stage in my life where I have no  F's left to give. I continue to evolve, as of now I am a Daddy Dom with a sadistic streak. As I am demisexual, I have to have a mental connection to play. . I am open to introducing a newer sub.  I've learned masochism can be trained into a receptive partner using classical conditioning.

I do not use any tools or techniques I have not tested on myself.  SSC

(Shhh!  I do like to slide over to the other side of the slash for some nice pain from time to time.)

Non-inclusive list: Blood, any permanent damage, scat. Limits and boundaries are discussed and agreed on before hand and shall be respected by all parties.

If you are in a relationship and sneaking around, please move on.  I will play with Poly/ENM folks in relationships. 

I am here to learn and share what I know, make friends, and maybe find that long term connection among those friends.