Hookups

There are a lot of wannabe "Doms" out there that don't know what they are doing. Not serial killers, but could still mess you up, example, nerve damage from someone that doesn't know how to tie. I s ...

Sat Jun 17, 2023 6:44 am • 60 Replies • 10985 Views

Best way to empty her bowel to prepare her for anal sex?

Absolutely do not use anything hooked up to plumbing. Yeah, MAYBE you can regulate the volume, if nobody bumps anything, but you cannot regulate the pressure. IE, she gets "full" and the pressure wil ...

Wed May 17, 2023 2:50 am • 38 Replies • 8229 Views

Platonic bdsm relationship with friend?

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Isn’t this also known as a “play partner?”[/quote]

After thinking about it, and reading the reply above, no, I don't think "Service Top" and "Play Partner" are the same thing. The reply ...

Sun Nov 20, 2022 5:50 pm • 6 Replies • 3072 Views

Platonic bdsm relationship with friend?

I'm confused. In what sense would it be platonic? Platonic to me means friendship only.

Check out "Service Top", which is what I think is being described here. No feels, just one person scratching ...

Sat Nov 19, 2022 4:14 am • 6 Replies • 3072 Views

Drawing the line for Taboos

Agree with TSG,
Some people I have run into think it is pretty sick to tie someone up and take a flogger to them. Tieing someone up and taking a flogger to them is considered assault and battery in ...

Sat Nov 19, 2022 3:55 am • 20 Replies • 5008 Views

Edging/holding back an orgasm

I'm with LOP. I made a stand for a magic wand, as she gets closer the flogging intensifies. When she gets real close I back the wand off and lean into it. Eventually I let her go over the falls - ...

Mon Nov 14, 2022 3:52 am • 18 Replies • 3660 Views

Water sports yes or no?

I guess I have a bit different take on it. I see it as one of the most intimate acts possible, I see it as fully accepting the other person, they are giving a very intimate gift.
Yes, I am a Dom f ...

Sat Nov 05, 2022 12:10 am • 55 Replies • 13571 Views

New sub

We're,
I say this in a spirit of kindness.
Checking her phone is not a good thing. And yeah, I've been there, my last wife (and I do mean last) was much younger, and ended up leaving me for a you ...

Thu Oct 27, 2022 6:11 pm • 48 Replies • 8385 Views

New sub

From the other side of the slash:
I was recently talking to a potential sub/partner. I wanted to meet, she wanted to wait and talk on the phone some more. As it progressed, I became less and less ...

Sat Oct 22, 2022 9:21 pm • 48 Replies • 8385 Views

Is it Ghosting when ....

i suspect you are right. i'm an older gay guy and i think that puts a target on my back for scammers. .
In the spirit of equality, I have to tell you being gay has nothing to do with it. I've be ...

Sun Oct 16, 2022 1:50 am • 34 Replies • 7681 Views