Platonic bdsm relationship with friend?

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Isn’t this also known as a “play partner?”[/quote]

After thinking about it, and reading the reply above, no, I don't think "Service Top" and "Play Partner" are the same thing. The reply ...

Sun Nov 20, 2022 5:50 pm • 6 Replies • 836 Views

Platonic bdsm relationship with friend?

I'm confused. In what sense would it be platonic? Platonic to me means friendship only.

Check out "Service Top", which is what I think is being described here. No feels, just one person scratching ...

Sat Nov 19, 2022 4:14 am • 6 Replies • 836 Views

Drawing the line for Taboos

Agree with TSG,
Some people I have run into think it is pretty sick to tie someone up and take a flogger to them. Tieing someone up and taking a flogger to them is considered assault and battery in ...

Sat Nov 19, 2022 3:55 am • 12 Replies • 1151 Views

Edging/holding back an orgasm

I'm with LOP. I made a stand for a magic wand, as she gets closer the flogging intensifies. When she gets real close I back the wand off and lean into it. Eventually I let her go over the falls - ...

Mon Nov 14, 2022 3:52 am • 18 Replies • 1483 Views

Water sports yes or no?

I guess I have a bit different take on it. I see it as one of the most intimate acts possible, I see it as fully accepting the other person, they are giving a very intimate gift.
Yes, I am a Dom f ...

Sat Nov 05, 2022 12:10 am • 39 Replies • 3908 Views

New sub

We're,
I say this in a spirit of kindness.
Checking her phone is not a good thing. And yeah, I've been there, my last wife (and I do mean last) was much younger, and ended up leaving me for a you ...

Thu Oct 27, 2022 6:11 pm • 48 Replies • 3844 Views

New sub

From the other side of the slash:
I was recently talking to a potential sub/partner. I wanted to meet, she wanted to wait and talk on the phone some more. As it progressed, I became less and less ...

Sat Oct 22, 2022 9:21 pm • 48 Replies • 3844 Views

Is it Ghosting when ....

i suspect you are right. i'm an older gay guy and i think that puts a target on my back for scammers. .
In the spirit of equality, I have to tell you being gay has nothing to do with it. I've be ...

Sun Oct 16, 2022 1:50 am • 34 Replies • 3480 Views

Re: Is it Ghosting when ....

What you list in my experience indicates a fake profile and or scammer. I often see it combined with broken English and grammatical mistakes. Usually, asking a question about some aspect of the plac ...

Sat Oct 15, 2022 5:33 pm • 34 Replies • 3480 Views

Re: Song that describes you or your feelings

Black Sabbath "Paranoid". Not such a good BDSM tune.


(This is my sneaky attempt at collecting more BDSMy music, thanks in advance!)
If you have a streaming service, look up Dana Gillespie's " ...

Sun Sep 18, 2022 2:15 am • 330 Replies • 40947 Views