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Machines

I got interested enough to build one of my own, but haven't really tested it out thus far.

Thu Aug 13, 2026 1:56 am • 4 Replies • 109 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Machines

The new Mail system

The natural order of reading is from top to bottom so it makes sense to read the messages in chronological order and not the other way around.

Yeah maybe for European readers but US based email sys ...

Sat Aug 08, 2026 10:31 pm • 17 Replies • 561 Views

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TopekaDom

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Technical Support

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The new Mail system

While I really like it and you did a nice thing by changing how the delete function works, there is one small problem for me:

I find that when dealing with a long email chain, having to scroll to ...

Sat Aug 08, 2026 3:27 pm • 17 Replies • 561 Views

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TopekaDom

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Technical Support

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The new Mail system

Cleaning toys

Depends on the kind of toys you are talking about:

Are the insertables? If so, what are the made of? Silcone or latex?

Are you talking leather, such as hoods, floggers, and the like? Is it r ...

Thu Aug 06, 2026 5:22 pm • 8 Replies • 319 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

Cleaning toys

Oh for Fucks Sake Already!

Look, I get you needed to do the change on the photo policy.

I also get you need me to review the photos you say need to be removed.

But I have done that shit three times now, over the same ...

Sat Jul 25, 2026 3:11 pm • 2 Replies • 321 Views

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TopekaDom

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Technical Support

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Oh for Fucks Sake Already!

Permission

A recent observation got me on the subject of Permission.

Now in your stereotypical D/s relationship, the D is the one who grants a given permission. But my question is when should this perm ...

Wed Jul 15, 2026 2:15 am • 5 Replies • 565 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Permission

What do you.....?

I often equate being a Dom with being a sculptor.

One takes a hunk of rough rock and stare at it til you see the glorious figure within. Then, you peck away the unneeded chips and buff out the r ...

Fri Jul 10, 2026 10:52 pm • 28 Replies • 2181 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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What do you.....?

Collars

Back in my day, they were called "Forever" collars (which I think is better marketing)

I love the idea but I think they are simply ugly as shit. Spent some time trying to figure out the same kin ...

Fri Jul 03, 2026 5:18 pm • 5 Replies • 627 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Collars

Do you think that the Cage staff should use members in their Magazine Section?

The main problem is vetting those who would want to be in the mag.

Let's face facts here: We all have screen names mainly to be anonymous. Those that are highlighted in the articles are big ...

Fri Jun 12, 2026 1:26 am • 8 Replies • 536 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Do you think that the Cage staff should use members in their Magazine Section?

Teaching or Helping you Learn....

Can you give more context?

The best I can do is say it is best to view from the Dom/me's viewpoint.

I don't wish to explain my viewpoint right now, as not to influence what others might thin ...

Sat Jun 06, 2026 5:28 pm • 11 Replies • 1280 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Teaching or Helping you Learn....