WillowJ

Female

49

Single

I've been interested for years in BDSM and have a very close friend that has been in the lifestyle and have always been intrigued, but have been too shy, embarrassed, uncomfortable....to do anything. It's taken years, but I am finally ready to figure out what my likes/dislikes really are and simply enjoy exploring. I am not sure if I am a submissive, bottom, possible a bit of a switch, so there is a lot to try.  

I do enjoy rope and attended a couple of workshops and then life got in the way and I had to stop. Stepping away was hard, but was needed and am hesitant to be back here. I just really need to figure out this side of me.

This is a work in progress.  I have learned in my limited experience, that everyone has their own definition of what a sub and/or bottom is and its important that all parties involved have the same definition.  Playing to explore and learn is great, but i cannot do that to myself.  Having a connection is a requirement of mine.  Definitely looking forward to experiencing my fantasies in real life.

This is a bit of an unknown territory. I'm hesitant on a lot of pain, willing to explore, but not sure. Blood, feces, branding, needles are definitely hard limits.

May 31, 2020

Jul 27, 2018