Is it breath play? Or is it something else?

For me I don't view this as breath play. As a teenager my friends and I used to do this to each other. We'd let go when when the person passed out, and if we were nice enough we would catch them on ...

Tue Jul 16, 2019 11:46 pm • 12 Replies • 5220 Views

Something different...

I’d hope to be a Saint Bernard but they are gentle and patient and well I’m not! I’d probably be a mastiff. Somewhat docile and dignified but extremely protective of loved ones and wary of strangers ...

Tue Jul 09, 2019 10:46 pm • 20 Replies • 11680 Views

my area

To add onto dr. Wacko another great place to find events is fetlife. I only use that site for events, its a start. I also can’t stress enough about attending munches and meeting others in the area, ...

Thu May 09, 2019 3:06 pm • 10 Replies • 7856 Views

Being a feminist and a submissive female

For me, my submission is always earned and is my choice. I am more than capable to doing what I need to do on my own, without following someone's arbitrary rules. If I don't agree with it, I won't ...

Wed Feb 06, 2019 5:01 am • 81 Replies • 20227 Views

Compatibility

I have yet to find someone that fits me yet, so maybe my approach doesn't work. Someone else mentioned they approach it as they would a vanilla relationship, which I also do.

Just like in a vanil ...

Thu Jan 31, 2019 7:22 pm • 16 Replies • 6843 Views

Is what I'm doing Fair?

So I don’t think you’re being unfair. We all judge people and weed people out every single day regardless of what we’re looking for play partners partners friends or just decent human beings in a stor ...

Tue Jan 29, 2019 2:24 am • 16 Replies • 7389 Views

BDSM goals for the new year

My BDSM goal is to attend at least one event a month (workshop, munch....). I need to keep getting out there. I'd love to learn rope, but since those are the events I'm drawn too, I will simply say ...

Mon Dec 31, 2018 10:24 pm • 7 Replies • 4963 Views

Would you stay or would you go

The beginning/honeymoon period of a real life relationship tends to occupy most of one's time, it has always been that way for me. Would I still log in from time to time, sure, but would I be on as m ...

Sat Dec 22, 2018 2:07 am • 46 Replies • 15787 Views

Rigger Books and Rope Advice

I'm just starting out exploring rope as well. Based on some recommendations, I purchased basic cotton rope on amazon, not good for suspension or anything too intense because cotton has too much give, ...

Sat Dec 08, 2018 8:13 am • 50 Replies • 20934 Views

Consent in chat..

I enter chat knowing that I may be completely out of my element, not like what is being discussed, or feel like i have nothing to contribute. I try to be cheeky about calling someone out on things in ...

Thu Nov 29, 2018 4:32 am • 25 Replies • 7281 Views