Major Zach
dom male

Portland, Maine, United States

Major Zach

Relationship status
Single
About me

Please Allow Me To Introduce Myself: I'm Major Zach - The Iron Hand in the Velvet Glove

I'm a single Gentleman of the Old School - a former Army Special Forces Branch Major (and before you ask, yep, we're the
Commissioned Officer versions of the Green Beanies). Now I have a civilian career as a Senior level IT Executive in the
Large Enterprise IT Operations Management arena in both the private sector of the F50 Banking and Financial Services
industry and the public sector for the Federal Government.

I'm highly intelligent, ridiculously well traveled, and likely over-educated with dual undergrad B.A.'s, an MA and my MBA.
Additionally, I also hold (give or take) +/- 35 or so top-level capstone IT and Technology Industry Board-level Certifications.

I've lived alone here in this three bedroom Colonial since my divorce back in 2016. The only  exception is that I share my
space with a 7 pound Black Toy French Poodle named Mme.Bernadette. Bernie and I live in Portland, Maine, right near
the water within the uniquely beautiful and eponymous neighborhood of Portland known as The Back Cove.

Prior to COVID-19 I traveled frequently on business. Now, however, I spend my time sitting on conference calls and
working from my home office. 

Oh WAIT!!  That brings up an Important Point!

Since I can literally work from just about anywhere, I would be open to discussing a possible relocation for the right woman.

I've been in the BDSM Community for decades now and very early into my introduction to the local BDSM scene community I
decided to follow the full RT 2 year path of training to become both a well trained Master and a fully Accepted Member of the
Old Guard Order. Over the years since then I have trained many new and aspiring Masters and Mistresses, Doms and Dominas,
and of course subs and slaves alike for other Members of the Order as I my time allowed.

So please note - I'm very experienced, and believe me, this former Green Beret Major knows PRECISELY what he's doing.

YOU KNOW? I BET YOU'RE WONDERING - HEY SO JUST WHAT EXACTLY ARE YOU HOPING TO FIND HERE ANYWAY?

Well  - I'm glad you asked that question. So please stay awhile, and listen. Keep reading and allow me to tell you.

To keep it really simple I have made a list of the most important qualities I am seeking in a submissive or slave.

Fist and Foremost, I have been searching - for a very long time - to find:

A woman who is educated, intelligent, witty, and with a good sense of humor
A woman who is generally cheerful and has a pleasant disposition and demeanor
A woman who is excited about becoming my "willing accomplice" and "partner in crime"
A woman who is unashamed of her body and unafraid of her sexual needs, wants, desires, kinks, or fantasies
A woman who is by nature very sexually curious and exploratory with kinks or other pleasures she needs satisfied
A woman who is well aware and completely unafraid of knowing that I will test her limits, for that is who I am
A woman who truly needs and wants a man who is highly erotic by nature, very tactile, and easily sexually aroused
A woman who is a lover of sensuality and eroticism, long to be next to me, under me, *grin* or sitting naked at my feet
A woman with a strong libido, a high sex drive, easily gets wet, willing, and wanting, as often as possible
A woman who possess and will show fierce pride in wearing My Collar and have great pride in her act of submissive surrender 
A woman who is simply height/weight proportional, takes pride in caring for her body, and does her best staying fit as she is able
A woman who is deeply submissive and now understands at a primal level that her unquenchable need for sexual domination,
total control, physical and sexual discipline, and real Male Domination is perfectly natural and should be supported and validated
A submissive female slave should always be viewed from the sexual perspective as the woman she is or she is trying to become


Most Importantly?

I truly need:

A woman who is willing and able to love me for all the many different men I am to very many people
A woman who is strong, brave, and believes enough in her own submissive nature to love me without any hesitation, or
holding back, but who trusts that she knows she can safely and truly love me with > everything < she has to give.

In the Immortal Words of Neil Young:
"It Keeps Me searching For A Heart of Gold - and I'm Gettin' Old"

A woman who is ready and fully and truly emotionally available when she engages Me from the very beginning.

A woman who if all goes well is truly prepared and truly ready to pull the trigger on our changing lives and bringing our
lives physically together.
 
I have already experienced enough heartbreak from waiting in vain after I'm emotionally invested for 6, or 12, or even more months and it was all for nothing. I think I've been waiting patiently long enough and it has saddened Me.

Believe it or not, there's a very real and very genuine Man who is sitting behind this screen right now as I'm typing these words to you. I am a man like any other with very real feelings that you can hurt if you try. So - please - for My sake tread kindly on My feelings.

And for all of us hopeful Guys out there who are doing our level best to find a truly genuine and kind-hearted BDSM submissive to be our life partners in crime, please don't pursue or lead a Man on letting Him thinks He has a chance with you if you are already fully aware and know that in the end there is no way He is ever going to experience the incredible joy that only comes from a real-time bonded intimate and loving couple living together as One every day in a BDSM P/E relationship.

MOVING RIGHT ALONG...
 

SO HOW ABOUT A LITTLE MORE IN-DEPTH DETAIL:

I feel that it is important that a woman, whether submissive or slave, be allowed to maintain a normal degree of balance in her life and her personal identity and sense of accomplishment to the extent she wants to.

So Because of This Personal Value of Mine:

I will not interfere with her work or career, but instead will even do whatever is within my power to help her advance in her career - should she wish it.

And in the same vein:
I will not ask her to discontinue any of her hobbies, activities, and past-times, or do away with the things that brought some measure of joy to her life before she knew Me.


So - What About her Age?

Here's a shock... SURPRISE!! I leave the age of the woman I am seeking - WIDE OPEN!! 

And why on earth would you do that - you ask.

Because I learned the hard way that focusing on a woman's age as your primary criteria for choosing a woman is NO guarantee whatsoever that you'll achieve anything close to the results you were expecting. *wry chuckle*

And now, I must also say the following  - but please know that I am doing so with the utmost care, sensitivity, and respect.

I need:
 
A woman who is free of any and all socially awkward substance addictions, who is generally healthy, and free of untreated STD's or other sex-related medical issues that may prevent what I hope will be a very active and very high quality sex life for both of us. So while I'm totally disease free - all STD's included - I am willing to be tested right along beside you should that prove necessary for true peace of mind.

 AND NOW FOR THE FINE PRINT!

- I will use you hard - sexually and otherwise - and - I will absolutely use you often
- I will push you to your utter limits.
- I will discipline you physically and sexually often
- I will absolutely and truly Dominate you - well beyond any expectations or shadow of a doubt. 

Why? 

It's quite simple really.

I'm an Ex-Army Green Beret Major that spent My career working as a
Tier-One Delta Force Special Operator and Delta Covert Ops Special Missions Unit
Field Commander. 

So this literally who - and - what - I truly am.

But with that said, I will NEVER give you more than you can handle just to break you or your spirit.
Likewise, I will  NEVER seriously harm you - nor allow you to come to serious harm in any way, form, or fashion. Simply stated, Masters of My caliber just don't break their toys!

Now on the other side of the coin, I will:

- Hold you tightly
- Protect you always
- Shelter you from harm
- Show you kindness and great affection
- Cherish and Treasure you
- And Honor you as you Honor Me

And Most Importantly of All:

I will love you deeply - for it is you who I must find and must have - very soon now- to help me finish healing, help make
me fully complete, and help me regain my strength, soul, and peace of mind -  and with your love and sexual affection
make me truly whole again, at long last.

Simply put: Whoever you are - wherever you are - please do NOT tarry in finding Me for I need you badly - and I need you  - NOW!  - I feel like I'm slipping away a little bit more every day.

In Return:

I will be your Iron Hand in the Velvet Glove. And I will cause you to feel more real and alive, wet, aroused, sexually engaged, verbally heard, and completely connected to Me in a way that is unlike anything you have ever hoped to experience -  before you found Me - and very bravely Claimed My Unclaimed Collar as your own and by doing so you made yourself truly and totally - Mine.

I am asking for a lot and I know this, but you have my Word that I shall return more than what I ask - or take - of you - and rest assured that you will be very glad you took your chance to finally become who - and what - you truly are - and that you did so with a very rare - but also a totally real, authentic and genuine....

Apex Alpha Male -True Master of The Old Guard Order - but Always Master of Himself First

SO HOW DO YOU GO ABOUT CLAIMING THE UNCLAIMED COLLAR OF AN                         OLD GUARD MASTER, ANYWAY????

So how is it that the Unclaimed Collar of an Old Guard Order Master or Mistress actually get Claimed by a slave??

well, it's a very old and ancient Ritual that is complex and shrouded in ageless mysticism and wondrous mystery......

Or in Plain English:

Basically - the Unclaimed Collar will be Claimed by whichever little happy slut is more determined, more aggressive, and wants it more than any of her sisters anywhere else on the Globe.

To prove her grit and pure unrelenting need and desire for My Unclaimed Collar she will somehow manage to outwit and out maneuver her competition by being the very first completely unclothed female slave for this brief time crawls her nude body across the threshold and into My home, shuts the door behind her and verbally expresses to Me her true wish, intent, need, and desire to Claim My Unclaimed Collar as hers and hers alone (unfortunately I come with the Collar) and she must do this before any other slave gal on the planet beats her to it.

Yep - Now isn't that just a heart-wrenching romantic scene?  Just like the ending of the film 
"An Officer and a Gentleman" only role reversed and adding some gratuitous total body nudity.

A perfect example of seriously complex, mentally challenging, physically demanding, classically heroic deed and Holy Quest filled with more full magical wonder than 'ole Hogwarts, ain't it?

*silvery chuckle*

Together we will make beautiful music and dream beautiful dreams - and create our own truly unique and mutually erotic daily landscape of life.

Please accept my most sincere hopes that you will find Me very soon (and will be willing and able to Carpe Diem and Act on it when you do)

With My most Dominant and warmly erotic regards,

Major Zach


BDSM and me

I have been part of the BDSM community for over 2 decades. I am a natural Dom, and received an extensive training lasting close to two years as a Master in what was called “The Old Guard” philosophy and approach to engaging with slaves and submissives.  My years as a Special Forces Officer only served to further refine and enhance what was already there.

I am a highly erotic being and a sensualist at heart - so a strongly intimate and sexual relationship with my sub or slave is a “must have” for me. I will push your boundaries and test your limits, but that is just part of who and what I am.

Despite my doing this, I am still a Master and I live and act as one would expect.
Believe me - “50 Shades of Gray” - I’m not, nor ever will be.  

But If you have that certain special need - and you know the one I’m talking about - that constant, unstoppable, whisper in the back of your mind you simply can’t ignore that brings an intense and deeply felt and sometimes an inexplicably strong feelings of longing or sadness and sense of living a life unfulfilled.

These sensations go hand in hand with an often overwhelming, sometimes constant state of sexual arousal and strong emotional need. As you’ve probably discovered by now this state is increasingly fueled by an ever growing sense of desire o many levels that burns bright and hot at the very core of your feminine self.  

If you know what < exactly >  what I’m talking about and you get all...emmm....tingly inside....just thinking about having a Master who is truly is the “Real Deal  ” - well - I’m may well be the One you’ve been yearning for.

At times, I can be strict and I can be stern. I offer no apologies for having high expectations. 
                                  
HOWEVER:

I FIRMLY BELIEVE IT IS MY JOB AND MY RESPONSIBILITY  TO MAKE SURE YOU WILL MEET MY EXPECTATIONS  -  NOT - YOURS !!

                                             SO IN PLAI   N ENGLISH:

NO PRIOR BDSM EXPERIENCE , BDSM KNOWLEDGE, OR BDSM EXPERTISE IS REQUIRED -OR - NEEDED !

I fully expect that you will most likely have little  - IF ANY -  BDSM experience when you come to me.  That is NOTHING for you to be embarrassed - or worried - about.   As a trainer it can at times even make my job easier if I do not have to un-train someone else's poor or unsafe habits.

I  > already < know you will need to be helped, guided, trained, disciplined, shown, taught, and used as oftenly and as deeply as possible - in the widest variety of fashions and in an expanding amount of different ways that will keep you firmly grounded and very secure in the knowledge and understanding that:

I WILL NEVER LET YOU FAIL BECAUSE I FAILED TO DO MY JOB!

A great majority of submissive women who are new to the power exchange relationship dynamic have a bad habit of being in their heads and not in their bodies where they belong. For those of you who may fit that description, contemplate this old and wise saying: 

"The World Outside is Vastly Larger than the Inside of Your Head"

I will train you, care for you, cherish you, treasure you, and use you the way you were meant to be used. But above all else, I will be your steadfast rock and your anchor in all weathers and stormy seas. I will be the bulwark and fortress that protects you from  your  fears, doubt, cares, or concerns.  

AND YOU WILL NEVER HAVE TO FACE THEM ALONE AGAIN!

  
IN CLOSING:

A Dom is nothing more than an average ordinary boy who is born just like any other boy is with the same inherent potential for the same set of dominant masculine traits and behavioral tendencies that have been hardwired by evolution and natural selection into the genetic makeup of the males in every species of primate on planet Earth.

The unfortunate reality for a submissive woman is that "doms" are a dime a dozen.  Because the TRUTH IS - NOT ALL DOMINATE MALES ARE CREATED EQUAL!!
Why risk your future happiness on a run of the mill ordinary dime a dozen dom when you
could instead have yourself a very rare and hard to come by TRUE APEX ALPHA MALE
who was trained for two years to become accepted as a Master in the Old Guard Order!

Simply put, doms are born just like any other boys but Masters are Made!

To be a Member of the Old Guard Order as a Trained Master is not just a lifestyle choice  - 
To be a Member of the Old Guard Order as a Trained Master is a Way of Life.

Major Zach
Limits
I have - ALWAYS - held to a strict policy of discussing limits - and desires - directly with one another. I feel this is a deeply sensitive, very personal, and singularly private issue that is unique to every woman. It is my belief this should be treated with the utmost level of respect, dignity, and due consideration. I also keep in mind that she will have her own particular needs and kinks that she would like to have met.
What's new
I'm finally diving back into the BDSM D/s lifestyle after a long - long -  break in action. I’ve missed it greatly.

Since my divorce back in 2016, I have wanted to feel that special love and desire again that can only come from a willingly submissive woman.  This time, I will keep going until I get what I really need and return to being who and what I truly am.

Busy with work and some home improvement projects but I’ve finally hit that point where its time to shake things up in my life.  I really need to start truly living again instead of simply “existing” .... day to day, week to week, month to month - and year after year.

In short, I’m in very serious need of a sub or slave to come to my rescue!!! *grin* And I’m hoping you'll be brave enough - and with a need that is great enough - that you will seek me out and find me here.  I'm pretty old school so I don't chase after submissives like some guy in a romantic comedy chick-flick.  I believe that a submissive should get to me to state her interest and not the other way around... 

So come on and start hunting all you little she-tigers, she-panthers, and she-leopards out there!!  It's not like I'm THAT hard to find, now, surely!!  *grin*

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Master/Mistress
98% Owner
97% Dominant
89% Experimentalist
87% Rigger
81% Degrader
76% Daddy/Mommy
72% Exhibitionist
67% Primal (Hunter)
58% Non-monogamist
57% Voyeur
41% Brat tamer
39% Switch
31% Age Player
24% Sadist 
16% Submissive
14% Boy/Girl
10% Brat
7% Rope bunny
6% Pet
5% Masochist
4% Primal (Prey)
3% Degradee
2% Slave
1% Vanilla
Update date
Sep 24, 2020
Member since
Dec 5, 2018
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