In a monogamous relationship
I am in my 40s, well-educated, somewhat of an introvert, eclectic taste in music, literature, and the arts. Fan of baseball, good comedy, and great sushi.
Am new-ish to the community. I have had a few Doms- all online , and they taught me a lot, but I still have much to learn. As a reward, I like to be top- with my Dom's permission. As a Domme, I lean more towards stern principal with a ruler, and while I like the whole latex look, it's not my preferred medium (although I can rock it). As a sub...I tend to have eclectic tastes as well. I need my Dom to help me navigate and discover how to balance my need to be cherished with my need to be punished...to teach and guide me as my Master, my Daddy, my King, and my Dom...because I want it all.
No hard-core kink, I don't share...everything else is negotiable. I am turned on by degradation, spanking, hair-pulling, and biting. I will be your slave but will not be shared or traded. I will be your slut but never your bitch. I will be your Queen, your babygirl, your kitten...I won't settle for anything but the real thing because I know my worth.
Sometimes when you stop chasing something... It comes to you. (June 2020)
While it is flattering to gets messages from interested paries, I am happily collared. Please respect this. New friends are always welcome, anything more is a firm no.