Do you block or have you been blocked?

Once I was collared, I tried being platonic with some of the men I had met here and played with online. For those that made my Dom uncomfortable or who I felt would be too much of a temptation, I blo ...

Sun Mar 17, 2024 11:51 pm • 62 Replies • 3436 Views

When you don't fit into a defined Dom or Sub category

When you need your Dom to be Daddy, Primal, Sadist, Rigger, Protector, White Knight, and Master because you are a Babygirl, Masochist, Brat, Princess, Slave, and sometimes Domme (not necessarily in t ...

Sun Nov 01, 2020 5:19 am • 6 Replies • 1983 Views

When you don't fit into a defined Dom or Sub category

How does one navigate being the type of sub that really doesn’t fit into any one defined “Sub” category? What do I do when one of those pieces is feeling lost, and it is affecting everything else? It ...

Sun Nov 01, 2020 3:59 am • 6 Replies • 1983 Views

Things your Dom/sub say that make you go "mmmm..."

My dom required me to do something today that brought out the exhibitionist in me. After giving me my assignment, he had warned me to do it safely. "I don't want anyone but me punishing you." Mmmm ...

Wed Oct 07, 2020 11:56 pm • 8 Replies • 2232 Views

Writing about bdsm when you are inexperienced

This is your erotic novel. What has your experience been so far? Your protagonist could be just as inexperienced as you are... With the same questions. There is a wide variety of kinks and fetishes a ...

Fri Oct 02, 2020 7:58 pm • 23 Replies • 6225 Views

Talking with an ex

Sometimes a connection is still there, even if it is no longer physical or partner-ish.

I share all communication with my dom, and there have been a couple #no fly zone" directives from him, to wh ...

Wed Sep 23, 2020 11:49 pm • 30 Replies • 10183 Views

Positive Masculinity

Bunnie, I agree, toxicity is not a masculine trait...it is a human trait that unfortunately has become all to prevalent. When we have no accountability, do whatever we want with no regard for anyone, ...

Sun Aug 09, 2020 5:28 am • 11 Replies • 4058 Views

Positive Masculinity

Bunnie, I agree, toxicity is not a masculine trait...it is a human trait that unfortunately has become all to prevalent. When we have no accountability, do whatever we want with no regard for anyone, ...

Sun Aug 09, 2020 5:26 am • 11 Replies • 4058 Views

New Dom

I am sorry you are hurting.
I can only give you a glimpse into this sub's mind, but I do know that my past has sometimes haunted my relationship with my Dom.

There are a few who I still talk to, ...

Wed Aug 05, 2020 3:16 am • 32 Replies • 11113 Views

New Dom

I am sorry you are hurting.
I can only give you a glimpse into this sub's mind, but I do know that my past has sometimes haunted my relationship with my Dom.

There are a few who I still talk to, ...

Wed Aug 05, 2020 3:16 am • 32 Replies • 11113 Views