I am a 38 year old single mom of a 4 year old, who has to be my priority. I am a pretty quiet person, usually preferring to watch and listen until drawn into a conversation. I find enjoyment in a wide variety of activities. I like adventures and new experiences. I am also adaptable. I tend to be a logical thinker and good planner. I've held a wide range of jobs from waitress to OTR truck driver, and am currently holding down 2 jobs. I don't do drugs and rarely drink. I am a cigarette smoker though.
I consider myself fairly new to BDSM. I have never had a Dom. One relationship introduced me to vibrators, floggers, and rope. I've been hooked since but have yet to find someone who doesn't get a little freaked out by my taste. which is why I'm here. I tend to prefer my hair wrapped around a fist, chest shoved into the bed and ass in the air. Not to say that gentle and slow isn't nice once in a while. Physical touch is extremely important to me. It's how I judge your feelings toward me. Lots of touch and I know I'm making you happy, less touch and I have displeased. I do not like to displease.
Respect my opinion and me as an individual, but own me completely. Don't make me guess what you want, how you want it, or when you want it. Tell me and/or take it. Just know exactly what kind/ how much power I give and don't drop me.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rope bunny
99% Submissive
67% Primal (Prey)
66% Exhibitionist
59% Slave
50% Vanilla
47% Experimentalist
47% Voyeur
45% Boy/Girl
44% Primal (Hunter)
42% Daddy/Mommy
40% Pet
40% Brat
33% Masochist
27% Degradee
25% Switch
14% Brat tamer
12% Dominant
11% Ageplayer
1% Non-monogamist
1% Rigger
0% Degrader
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
0% Sadist
No humiliation, drawing blood, permanent marks, nothing illegal, pretending to be underaged, other women.