what do you look for

For me the biggest "have to have" is trust that I can completely let go and be safe. The deal-breaker is when I am told what I think or feel.

Tue Jan 19, 2021 10:36 am • 31 Replies • 9020 Views

What is one question that turns you off to a potential?

"How are you?" Gets me every time. I can't help but wonder if they even bothered to look at my profile before messaging me.

Sat Jul 18, 2020 6:53 pm • 126 Replies • 41205 Views

Finding your limits

As a newbie, I realize that there is a lot that I don't know. I thought I had a decent idea of what my limits were until a conversation about several things I didn't know about caused very interesting ...

Wed Jul 15, 2020 5:22 am • 2 Replies • 2438 Views

Fucking book club

The Fettered series and the Handcrafted series by Lillian Moon in the romance genre. Also the Expeditionary force series by Craig Alanson in the sci-fi genre and the Spellmonger series by Terry Manco ...

Tue Jul 14, 2020 11:48 pm • 92 Replies • 27232 Views

Just three words

"on your knees" or "close your eyes"

Sat Jul 11, 2020 10:41 pm • 65 Replies • 18396 Views

What are some non-sexual traits or things that turn you guys on?

A desire to touch me. A hug or just hold my hand.

The ability to get me out of my head and who actually wants to know what goes on in there.

Someone who performs random acts of kindness.

Str ...

Thu Jul 09, 2020 10:05 pm • 119 Replies • 31839 Views