In a polyamorous relationship
I am the Dom half of a D/s couple & I am looking for a gf for my 30yo, petite, voracious, bi- & /sub gf. (& for me too, of course). New gf will be become here friend & also her lover when I am out of town on business. New gf will become her /sub whenever I am out of town. New gf will join current gf in dressing to the 9s (& later in lingerie) to welcome me back home.
I am more of restraint & control Dom. Even so, I am able, willing & have the right tools to remind those who need reminding of their roles & not to disrespect or disobey their Sir. I don't usually have much trouble aligning a /sub with my desires & goals.... & I don't expect to have to deal with such behavior very often.
As a Dom, I choose not to employ knives, do anything that leads to blood or waste products.