Fucking book club

I was barely a teenager when I first read it. I didn't fully grasp ALL the psychology of it.. but it is now considered a classic in science fiction:
"The World Inside" by Robert Silverberg

Mon Jan 03, 2022 11:52 pm • 92 Replies • 24409 Views

Strictly Online D/s Relationship 1:1 Pros and Cons

I see requests for online & even online-only D/s relationships. I can understand it maybe as a way to start slowly & build trust /rapport /insight into & with the other party. Maybe as a ...

Mon Jan 03, 2022 11:47 pm • 60 Replies • 13705 Views

Fun Game for Dominants!

Does playing chess count?? There are very few avenues in which skill is more dominant... And there is absolutely no luck involved...

When I beat you at chess, I will expect a lengthy, deep and ent ...

Fri Mar 05, 2021 1:56 am • 47 Replies • 12025 Views

Bringing D/s dynamics into an established relationship

My own two cents is try walking her into it... Come home with a pair of-decorated leather handcuffs. See if you can get her to wear them out to dinner. Then see how she reacts when chain them togethe ...

Thu Feb 25, 2021 9:06 pm • 16 Replies • 3541 Views

Subs Pursuing Doms

By all means, bring yourself to my attention. Maybe you will be that rare example of a great fit... I promise to let you down easy if the fit isn't there.

Mon Feb 08, 2021 12:19 am • 60 Replies • 21219 Views

Being a Dominate

Sorry/not Sorry to say but among any Dom's help for a /sub should include teaching the proper use of "Dominant" VS "Dominate".... Puh-leeze...

Sat Feb 06, 2021 8:14 pm • 7 Replies • 3984 Views

Is this acceptable?

When it's over, it's over. Or in the immortal words of Satchel Paige... " don't look back. You never know what might be gaining on you."

Sat Feb 06, 2021 4:09 am • 22 Replies • 5808 Views

Teaching a non-BDSM guy how to be Dom

I look at myself as someone who has always been a Dom ... even when I had little to no idea what the term was intended to convey. I think of myself as (to name just a few traits) highly self- discipl ...

Sun Oct 11, 2020 4:54 pm • 14 Replies • 5442 Views

In one sentence, describe what your submission or Dominance is.

I want what I want, when I want it.

Mon Sep 21, 2020 3:25 am • 61 Replies • 14266 Views

Submissive in principle but not in practice - how to adjust

I am interested in outside opinion vs. my situation...

We are both relatively new to the lifestyle but /sub (she) has issues from her childhood. Compensated for it by rebelling at 13 or 14 & ...

Tue Aug 04, 2020 2:09 am • 15 Replies • 5772 Views