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Silent Observations

Just my random thoughts as I try to learn and grow
7 years ago. January 1, 2018 at 9:33 AM

Instead on focusing on others, focus on yrself....... I have a mother hen complex, which has it's place but can be restricting of my own happiness. I let other peoples issues affect me when I shouldn't. In saying that my door is always open, but i will not be taking it all to heart.

Spending some time away has been great. And I return to find not much has changed. Instead of spending so much of my time in chat I will use my time more wisely. Talking, reading and researching. I will still be there just not all the time.

This year I will focus more on MY dreams and desires. I will try to better improve myself through reading, researching and new experiences. I will trust in the guidance from my Sir, to take me from my colour of green (new) to a lovely shade of red. I will dream. I will have a voice and speak up. If there are elements of my life I am not happy with I will take steps to change that instead of saying what if. I will laugh more and stress less.

So much has happened in 2017 and it has started a domino effect, that of which I have no desire to change. I feel happy and focused now that I have direction and love on my side.

This is not a new years resolution. This is an acceptance of the things to come. To see with clear eyes and hear with an open heart. To trust. To dream. To love

honeyswhore​{Callie} - Well done, Star. Acceptance is the first step, I believe.
7 years ago
SouthernFire​(sub female) - Good for you :) It is good to hear you will be taking a step back and focusing on yourself.
7 years ago

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