I wasn't sure whether to post this here or not but it is something that I have been struggling with.
I am by most standards a conservative person. If you knew me in RL or passed me on the street I doubt you would notice me or know my inner desires and kinks. I do love to dress up and feel sexy but that is generally reserved for going out at night or behind closed doors. Im not a natural flirt. I prefer to blend into the background. To sit quietly and people watch. Yet i still want to feel sexy. Within myself and for myself.
Usually i would do this in my daily life by wearing heals to work, or no underwear, maybe a tightly fitted dress, the perfune i wear or have my hair pinned up. But right now i have a new job where i am lifting and moving heavy items. I wear runners and shorts or long pants to work as they are practical. I like to leave my hair out instead simply to give me the softness I desire.
Now I know some of you will say its not the clothes but the attitude that makes a woman sexy or desirable. Yeah yeah yeah but how do i make myself feel that way when all i see is bland. Tell me yr sexy secrets cause i need some help.
Before you start I am told daily that I am beautiful or sexy but I need to feel it within myself and I simply dont right now. So any guidance from you gods and goddeses would be welcomed