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Silent Observations

Just my random thoughts as I try to learn and grow
6 years ago. May 29, 2018 at 11:20 AM

I wasn't sure whether to post this here or not but it is something that I have been struggling with.

I am by most standards a conservative person. If you knew me in RL or passed me on the street I doubt you would notice me or know my inner desires and kinks. I do love to dress up and feel sexy but that is generally reserved for going out at night or behind closed doors. Im not a natural flirt. I prefer to blend into the background. To sit quietly and people watch. Yet i still want to feel sexy. Within myself and for myself.

Usually i would do this in my daily life by wearing heals to work, or no underwear, maybe a tightly fitted dress, the perfune i wear or have my hair pinned up. But right now i have a new job where i am lifting and moving heavy items. I wear runners and shorts or long pants to work as they are practical. I like to leave my hair out instead simply to give me the softness I desire.
Now I know some of you will say its not the clothes but the attitude that makes a woman sexy or desirable. Yeah yeah yeah but how do i make myself feel that way when all i see is bland. Tell me yr sexy secrets cause i need some help.

Before you start I am told daily that I am beautiful or sexy but I need to feel it within myself and I simply dont right now. So any guidance from you gods and goddeses would be welcomed

honeyswhore​{Callie} - Flirt gently.
6 years ago
Bunnie - Sexy/matching lingerie, body writing, Ben wa balls, butt plug, nail polish, simple makeup (tinted moisturiser, mascara and lipgloss), and perfume all helped me when I was doing a labourer type job.
6 years ago
Bunnie - Lol... not to do the job... to feel sexy and feminine whilst doing the job ? Also the Ben wa balls and butt plug weren’t worn at the same time hehehe... but everyone else was.
6 years ago
Bunnie - *everything... not everyone... damn phone ?
6 years ago
Kateintraining​(sub female)​{Gratefully} - Girl. Wear your confidence on the outside. THATS what makes you sexy xx
6 years ago
Starlight82​(other female) - Thanks for all the comments I will add a few of these things and see how i go ?
6 years ago
Silver​(sub female)​{not intere} - ill be honest torn clothes dont do anythig for me except when i am working around the house. what ive learned is to be feminine, classy and respectful and it keeps me in a great mindset about my body. i dont wear baggy clothes outside the house or torn and ripped ones either. i choose clothes to wear that make me happy . i go for lace accents and soft textures and nice eye pleasing colors. nothing blaring.
6 years ago

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