I have been saying for years I have been really into BDSM as a top / dom and used to visit places in NYC regularly. I so fucking loving being a member of an amazing dungeon near me!
After I fell outta the lifestyle, I had confidence issues without it I faced an identity crisis. I have since come to appreciate not only am I extremely feminine, I love being female, I'm a switch, and desired to sub at times.
There was opportunity to grow but I was afraid at first of what I might find so stayed trapped being and doing things I hated for years. Being free finally is amazing I never knew life could be this good again!
This is the year of Anya! Med schools calling, EMT saving, dungeon member, kink playing, taekwondo doing, people loving, school crushing Anya. The only thing that could cap this off is if I also found my soulmate but you never know.
So much has changed in this year I wouldn't have asked to change a damn thing, it went exactly as it needed to for maximum Anya benefits.
i thank you all for being in my life, rooting me on in the journey. I can't forget to thank the haters, those who put me down, fought with me, ghosted me, you're part of the fuel I needed to crush it like I do.
PS I updated my pictures, take a look you won't be disappointed!
Make comments on my new photos, my new outlook, or just to say hi. Join team Anya it would mean the world to me.