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TopekaDom​(dom male) - What was the discussion on?

TigerBDSM​(dom male){looking} - Leadership has many levels and situations.
Though all encompassing leadership is a trait that people look for. What really matters is if they can lead you.
So even it a simple task, upto something very complicated, as long as you feel comfortable and satisfied, then it is a good connection.
Conversation and direction while talking/writing is a fundamental part of the lifestyle.
HOWEVER for many they are seeking the kinky sex or other activities that do not require lots of communication. Then two people can connect in a more nonverbal method.
What it comes down to this, are the things you expect in a relationship happening or not AND can it be fixed.

Susie Q{Daddy Ant} - I don’t think it matters what anyone else can tell you so much as do YOU feel he can lead you. If you have doubts then his ability really won’t matter.

Spanks hard​(dom male){Looking } - A true Dom or Master should be capable of leading by words and actions whether it is a in a dynamic relationship or not.

Larsapan​(dom female) - More context is required imo. A phobia or negative physical reaction to public speaking for instance, has zero to do with dominance.

chattel​(sub female) - A conversation with a potential sub was the intended context but it would apply in many social situations

I agree public speaking would not apply

Miss Magdalena​(sub female){FreeSpirit} - Agreed with the few above who inquired about context, it's hard to give an informed opinion without more specifics. :) Taking it simply at face value and in an effort to offer a different perspective than what has already been said above, I would caution to manage expectations around the title of Dominant. Behind the kink and title is the person, and while we may look to our Dominants for guidance, initiating conversation and developing effective communication is on the both parties. What is bothersome to me, may not be obvious to my Dom, so it's up to me to voice my concerns and make sure he not only hears what I am saying but understands as well, so a thoughtful and meaning dialogue can take place.

SirWH​(dom male) - Leading a conversation is not necessarily a indicator off how a Dom will lead you the scene , some don't say much but actions speak more than words

chattel​(sub female) - I don't"t scene and would seek for a 24/7 dynamic so it matters in that context

LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Kintsugi} - I think it depends, if they’re struggling to lead a conversation because the other party isn’t giving them deep answers then I think it’s understandable. If they are the ones not leading with deep answers the I would question what kind of dynamic/relationship we could have.

Literate Lycan​(dom male) - As indicated above, it depends entirely on the discussion. In the example you site above regarding initial conversations between a Dominant and a potential submissive, sometimes allowing the conversation to progress organically can be seen as not leading, when perhaps the Dominant is trying to discover the communication patterns and allow you (or whoever they are conversing with) to speak openly and candidly without undue influence. Remember, initial discussions with possibly new partners don't have established positions. The individual may be Dominant, but that doesn't make them The Dominant in the discussion. That evolves as does the discussion. That being the case, you may feel that in the initial discussions the individual did not display dominant characteristics - and you might be right. Sometimes gut instinct is on the money and maybe they desire to be a Dominant but truly its not their gift. Lots of words, but I hope I conveyed the thought.

bernone - Do you have an owner now?